It’s about a year since the last big floods in Lismore (my home town) in Northern NSW. My sister’s house is on the left in the featured photograph, and the house on the right is one I considered buying a couple of years ago. I suspect the value of the property is a fair deal LESS, now.
My family still has a nervy-ness about every time there’s talk of another flood coming. Though last year they didn’t listen to my advice to “get out while they could”, this time around they’re far more cautious. Every time it rains, I get a phone call, asking me for my “expert advice”.
Here’s some photographs taken by family members during the time which illustrate how close the waters either came into getting into their own homes, or the homes of other family members, and what it was like afterwards.
A few months ago I bought a raincoat from Somedays, the terrific Swedish clothing store in Sydney’s Surry Hills. It must have been an omen foretelling poor weather for this trip to Sweden.
The weather hasn’t been great, so far, on this trip to Sweden. In stark contrast to the first time I visited Sweden at exactly the same time of year in 2008 (when the temperatures hit 30 degrees), and in 2011 (when it wasn’t as warm as 2008, but still warm), there’s been cloud and rain every day. By the afternoons, things have tended to improve, but nonetheless, I’m probably doing more “indoor activities” than I’d planned.
And so with a few hours to kill while the sky remained cloudy and grey, I paid a visit to the Nordiskamuseet, the Nordic Museum.
Highlights for me included the display about Sweden’s Indigenous people, the Sami, the display about how Swedish housing has changed over the last four hundred years, and a wonderful display of twentieth century clothing photography. The photography exhibition, in particular is excellent. Beautiful photography, and a great explainer, as the exhibition notes, about how Sweden transformed itself from a peasant nation into a modern welfare state.
After a couple of hours, it was time to leave, and pleasantly, the sun was shining again.
Twentieth century Swedish clothing at the Nordiska Museet, Stockholm
Traditional house at the Nordiska Museet, Stockholm
Grace Jones was just a tiny spot on the stage last night, but she still managed to fill The Domain. She was, of course, the star attraction for the Sydney Festival First Night. And for me, the main attraction.
In common with a lot of similarly aged poofs, I’ve been a Grace Jones fan for a long, long, time. At about the age of eighteen I remember seeing, “Walking In The Rain” being played on Countdown, and being totally blown away. Along the way I’ve followed her musical career, though I’ve never been a fan of her acting. Unfortunately I never saw her the last time she played in Australia twenty years ago, as I was living in a different state. A different time and place. And so for me, getting to The Domain and finding a good spot was a high priority last night.
As Damo and I headed towards The Domain for the Sydney Festival First Night, we were blown away with how many people there were. We both quickly noticed, though, how seemingly few police and security guards there were. Somehow, the crowd managed to look after itself. A function, I guess, of being a drug and alcohol-free event. Well, for the public anyway. I’m not sure if I could say the same about Grace Jones!
I was blown away by the show. It’s as if her voice had never changed (and she was most definitely singing live). The most popular numbers were, not surprisingly, “Love Is The Drug”, “La vie en rose” and “Pull Up To The Bumper”. The audience was less-familiar with some of her other songs. I’d estimate only about a third of those attending The Domain would have known much about her musical career, as they were in the twenties and early thirties. But for me and a large number of similarly-aged people it was a great trip down memory lane, as we sang along, and danced with her like it was the mid 80s all over again.
Another great part of the show was her between-song-patter which was always very amusing. “You know I came to Australia twenty years ago and carved my initials in a tree. I’m still trying to find that tree. I must have been pretty fucked up at the time”, she said at one point to howls of laughter from the audience. Later at the after-show party at Hyde Park Barracks, a mate I work with quipped, “She’s looking in the wrong place. The tree’s ten feet taller now!”.
The other memorable “Grace Jones Moment” was when she suddenly invited people up on stage to “party”. It was pretty clear this was a spontaneous moment which the security guards had not been briefed on. While at first there was just two or three people dancing with her, by the end of the song there must have been fifty. Memorably, she told someone to “stop pushing, or I’ll get down there and PUSH YOU”. On another occasion, she noted a young bloke was having trouble climbing up on the stage, and observed, “He must have had too much to drink”. And then there was the moment where she bent and over and simulated sex with a young bloke she was dancing with, to howls of audience cheers. Oh, and the great moment where a bloke pulled out a camera seeking a photograph with her on stage, which she just dismissed with her hand. I could go on… All of these comments were delivered with the characteristic Grace Jones deadpan delivery.
In some ways, she was a slight parody of herself. But what a great parody! And, my how that small spot on the stage managed to command a lot of attention. Thank goodness for the big screens. Clearly the show was designed with them in mind. With each song there was a new costume or hat. Most memorable was the “disco bowler”, a bowler hat covered in sparklers, reflecting laser light. If there’s gonna be a DVD of the show, I’ll be lining up to buy it!
Grace Jones at Sydney Festival First Night
Grace Jones in The Domain for Sydney Festival First Night
I’ve just been to see the latest production of “The Boy From Oz”, the musical based on the life story of Peter Allen. For those unfamiliar with the musical or his work, Peter was an Australian singer-songwriter who achieved a great deal of success in America. He had a song-writing partnership with Carole Bayer Sager that resulted in songs like “Don’t Cry Out Loud” and “Arthur’s Theme”, as well as “I Love You, I Honestly Love You” which was recorded by Olivia Newton John. He was also married to Liza Minelli and was very much part of the showbiz scene in the United States even if he wasn’t, perhaps, all that wel known. Growing up in a small country town in Australia, he seemed to feel a genuine affection for the countryside and penned songs including “I Still Call Australia Home” (an unofficial national anthem) and “Tenterfield Saddler”. Peter Allen died of an AIDS related condition in the 90s (yes, the marriage the Liza was brief!). His life story was then turned into a documentary, a book, and then a musical which featured Hugh Jachkman on Broadway, for which Jackman won a Tony Award.
For the last couple of years I’ve had a bit of a crush on Hugh Jackman. He’s good looking in the non-conventional way that I really like. But as of today, I think I could be on the verge of being a Hugh Jackman stalker. I thought his performance in “The Boy From Oz” was truly spectacular and well worth the exhorbitant ticket price we paid. Mind you, we had spectacular seats. Located in the first row behind the premium seats, we had no need to look towards the big screens for the emotional parts (as suggested by a friend who’d been on Thursday night), as they were there right in front of us.
Having read the newspaper reviews, I was a little apprehensive about seeing the show. A few of the reviews mentioned how his early life was skipped over in a way that wasn’t in the original Australian production which I’d enjoyed several years ago. I was pleased that Lismore still got a mention as the town in which Peter worked in a “leading menswear store” (was I the only person in the audience who knew it was George Gooley Menswear?). There was also a front page story in “The Sun Herald” today which made a big thing of the “missing gay kiss” (though dramatically the absent kiss was more in tune with the lyrics of the song – “If we both were born in another place and time This moment might be ending with a kiss” – so the absense of a kiss actually made sense and didn’t matter. From my perspective, this was like a combination of the original Australian production and some of Peter Allen’s broadway shows and for that I was pleased, though I’m glad we were close enough to see the show without relying on the video screens that would have been necessary further back.
Being up close, it was possible to see every movement, every word, and every emotion. It was also possible to see the genuine enthusiasm Jackman has for the subject and for the work. On occasion, you sensed he felt a sense of awe at being given the opportunity to play such an interesting character. How weird must it have been for a young boy from rural NSW to have found himself meeting the likes of Judy Garland, marrying Liza Minelli, and performing in the United States? Without wanting to read too much into his performance, I sensed Hugh may have had the same sense of wonderment.
With repise roles from the original Australian production, including Chrissie Amphlett as Judy Garland and Angela Toohey as Liza Minelli, you knew the cast understood and (I suspect) loved the show. And then there was Colleen Hewitt as Peter’s mother. Colleen has always been a favourite of mine. As a child, I vividly remember her record, “Day By Day”, for its passion, even if, at the time, I didn’t really understand the significance of the lyrics. As Peter’s mother, I thought she brought a greater authenticity to the role than Jill Perryman had in the original Australian production, and it was possibly because Colleen has known “hard times”. As she began to speak, “Don’t Cry Out Loud”, there was a feeling that maybe she had lost her voice, but as she began to sing she clearly hadn’t. Now clearly post-menopausal, her voice was deeper, but with all the passion she could muster she sang the song with authenticity and sincerity. Her performance was a real show-stopper, especially as it followed on from a fairly confronting sequence in which Peter’s father kills himself.
Also touching was the performance of “I Love You, I Honestly Love You” by Peter’s partner, Greg, which caused a tear or two.
Another show stopper was “I Still Call Australia Home”. Although it had the potential to be very cheesy, especially as the segment drew its inspiration from the Opening Ceremony of the Sydney Olympics, with Qantas choir and lots of flags, it wasn’t. I genuinely saw quite a few tears around the audience in a display of nationalism that lacked the creepiness that’s often so evident when the song is sung.
About the only song I was a little disappointed in was “Tenterfield Saddler” and not because of the performance. As a song about a young man growing up in the country, but pursuing his dreams in the city, it means so much to me. And even though Hugh sat down on the steps only about 15 feet away from where I was sitting, and sang the song with passion, I guess there’s something about the original version that means more to me than can be reproduced. Mind you, I thought Bette Midler did a terrific version last year, and also in the television special where she forgot the words. Maybe it was the humour she injected into the performance?
I think the reason I liked the show, so much, however, was the genuineness of the affection displayed by the actors for the work of Peter Allen and the authenticity of their performances. Oh, and Hugh… In stark contrast with Peter Allen who sweated like a pig, Hugh was on stage for almost all of the show singing, dancing, engaging and there wasn’t a sign of sweat! So yeah, I’ve gone from having a slight crush on Hugh to having feelings bordering on stalking.
I can’t recall the last time I indulged in a classic ‘Afterwork Friday Drinks.’ With my illness and the lingering effects of COVID lockdowns, it feels like long time.
A colleague recently shared that ‘Afterwork Thursday Drinks’ have become the new norm, likely due to the increased number of people working from home on Thursdays.
A spontaneous text from a couple of friends about weekend plans sparked an impromptu decision to explore the new metro line, check out a trendy bar, and perhaps cap off the night with a delicious dinner.
The New Metro in Sydney
Ever since its opening on Monday, I’ve been eager to experience Sydney’s new Metro. This high-speed train network offers a convenient alternative to traditional rail services, connecting destinations that previously lacked direct train access.
For instance, I’ve always enjoyed visiting The Wharf Theatre, but the limited public transport options and the need for taxis or ride-sharing have been a bit of a hassle. While I could catch a train to Wynyard and walk from there, the walking distance has become challenging since my right leg amputation. The new Metro station at Barangaroo is a game-changer, as it’s just a short walk from The Wharf. Personally, this new service will make a significant difference in my daily life.
My friends boarded the Metro at Sydenham, while I joined at Central Station. Our destination was Chatswood. As we traveled, there was a palpable excitement about the driverless technology, allowing passengers to stand at the front and enjoy the scenic views through the tunnels. Many children and older adults, including myself, were captivated by this unique experience.
It wasn’t until we returned on the conventional train that we fully realized the speed and efficiency of the new Metro. It’s truly an impressive addition to Sydney’s transportation network!
Maybe Sammy – Getting Legless
After our train ride we popped into the bar, Maybe Sammy which came highly recommended.
Presumably the name of the bar is a reference to Sammy Davis Junior, as the bar has a 50s rat-pack feel about it. The bar staff are dressed in a 50s night-club styles, and there was a DJ playing music appropriate to the theme.
There were lots of staff, and we felt well looked after. Still recovering from last year’s surgery, there are times when I need to remove my prosthetic limb, and the staff were wonderful in looking after my needs with appropriate seating.
We enjoyed some “happy hour cocktails”, which were excellent.
I posted this photograph on Facebook, and challenged my friends to caption this without using the word “legless”. You wouldn’t believe how many times I’ve heard someone make the legless joke, as if they were the first person to think of it.They were very clever. referencingthe leg as a “shoey” or a “leggy”; others talked about having a “knees up” or “cast drinks”. Very funny.
After that, we had dinner at an excellent Malaysian restaurant near the QVB, and finally a drink at the Marble Bar at The Hilton.
It was such a pleasure to go out and about on a Friday night for a few drinks, a few laughs, and to enjoy lovely time with good friends.
We spotted this Paralympics shop window in the Watches of Switzerland store at the bottom of George Street, which we thought was very cool.
In Other News
I should have seen the writing on the wall when my podiatrist started asking me questions about the NDIS during our last appointment. As a regular patient, I visit him every eight weeks for post-amputation care, including foot inspections, nail trimming, and general foot health advice.
When I arrived for my appointment today, the receptionist informed me that the podiatrist had resigned and there was no immediate replacement. Looking back, I realized the clues were there: the unusual conversation about the NDIS and the missing reminder text. It’s a shame he’s leaving, as I enjoyed our visits and appreciated his professionalism.
Now, I’m faced with the decision of whether to wait for a replacement at my local surgery or seek a new podiatrist. If you know of a reputable one in the Surry Hills area, please share your recommendation.
Fortunately, the blood blister on my toe has healed. However, I’ve been feeling under the weather lately, primarily experiencing fatigue. Despite taking a mid-week recovery break as outlined in my return-to-work plan, I pushed myself too hard last week, working five days straight and then overexerting myself on Saturday. This resulted in complete exhaustion by Sunday, forcing me to spend most of the day in bed.
I was eager to return to work on Monday for several reasons, including the launch of the new ABC News website. I was particularly excited about the reinstatement of the classic ABC TV news theme from the 80s, which was once remixed into a dance club hit. The original theme has now been revived and is featured on the ABC News channel and the 7pm News.
My enthusiasm stemmed not only from my love of media but also from the fact that the theme was co-composed by Peter Wall, a former manager and close friend. He was a constant source of support during my hospital stay last year.
After attending the launch, I worked from home for a few hours in the afternoon. By Tuesday, I was feeling better, and by Wednesday, I was almost back to normal.
It’s remarkable how physical health can impact emotional well-being. While I’ve experienced illness since my amputation, this was the first time I felt a significant emotional downturn. I questioned whether these feelings of fatigue would be a lifelong burden. Thankfully, I’m on the mend now.
“I’ve been to that bar, I’m sure”, I whispered in the ears of my friends as we watched “Männer zum knutschen” (Men To Kiss) at the Mardi Gras Film Festival.
It was August 2008, I was in Berlin, and sitting in a bar there with the inspired name of The Sharon Stonewall.
While there I met a couple of blokes sitting at the bar who I chatted to for quite a while. I’m sure they were both quite mad, but they were kind and friendly and invited me into their conversation. They also invited me to another nearby bar which I’m struggling to remember the name of, but which was an absolute hoot. In the underground disco the DJ played an eclectic mix of hit songs from the last thirty years. I was in absolute heaven.
So yeah, I’m pretty sure that was the bar that we went to later in the night which featured in the movie.
At the centre of the movie is a a guy played by the very attractive and talented Frank Christian Marx (FCM) who finds himself torn between his group of friends in Berlin, including his current boyfriend, and a long-term female friend from his past. In a scenario not too disimilar to something I’ve personally experienced, the female friend is best described as a little bitter and twisted, and more motivated by selfishness than any real sense of friendship.
Despite this apparent heady and serious plotline, it’s best described as a light comedy. At times there’s even elements of farce.
After the film, FCM stayed around and answered some questions about the film. Interestingly, it was only a completed a few weeks ago.
In hindsight, I regret that I didn’t get up and ask a question myself. My question, “What was the name of that bar at the beginning, as I would love to know so I can go back there again?”
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I don’t think that I could live in a flood prone locality. I admire the resilience of those who bounce back from these setbacks.
I don’t think that I could live in a flood prone locality. I admire the resilience of those who bounce back from these setbacks.
Hi Victor, I’ll likely return to Lismore in retirement, but definitely plan to live on the hill.