At the risk of sounding like a total hypocrite, I want to rant about our society’s current, complete obsession with mobile phones. Although, I’m as guilty as probably everyone else, it’s really starting to bug me in a major way.
Earlier tonight I was in a bar in Sydney. All around me, there were people oblivious to the world around them, totally focused on their mobile phones. Though I totally understand the mobile phone is the “modern day cigarette” (what you do when you have nothing else to do), it still annoys me. You go to a bar, you should be out and about chatting to other people, and all you do is slowly drink your beer, with your head down, oblivious to your near neighbour. In fact, you actively ignore them!
It really craps me that even people who are together do it too. You see two people together (maybe on a date) and they’re both interacting with other people (or just websites), instead of each other.
And worst of all, you watch people scroll through other people’s lives so quickly. You see people who should be engaging with the amazing content of their friends (their photographs, the amazing parts of their lives), and yet it’s “scroll, scroll, scroll”, like they’re flicking through TV channels on their remotes.
I’m sure it’s only a short-term thing. Like the rubik’s cube. Yeah, I’m sure it is. We’ll get over it. Sadly, I do it, too, and I’m trying to stop! Join with me.
“Oh my God, you MUST watch it”, I told a colleague earlier this week. She grew up in Sweden and is a major fan of Depeche Mode. I was talking about the first episode of “80s”, a new half-hour music documentary from Swedish TV, SVT. The first episode featured a very early Swedish television performance from the band, during which a rather nervous Dave Gahan stumbled his way through an interview, and even seemed somewhat surprised when the presenter spoke to him in English. The essential argument of the first program was that the 80s began as a battle between synthesiser-pop and hard-rock, and that, in some ways, Depeche Mode embodied elements of both.
Tonight, I watched the second episode. Tonight’s program was about Kim Wilde, as the embodiment of the pop princess (who later became more interested in gardening, having dogs, and raising children) and about the rise of the video clip through MTV. There were some terrific modern-day interviews (in English) with some MTV VJs, as well as Kim Wilde, Howard Jones, Limahl, Midge Ure and others. One of the VJ’s commented they had to travel New Jersey for the launch, as it was the early days of cable. Midge Ure talks about their “accidental” approach to the making of the “Vienna” clip. One of the guys from Spandau Ballet talks about how unfashionably dressed Americans were before MTV exposed them to European fashion. It’s been interesting to watch the last two episodes and to see these performers reflect back on their “time in the sun” thirty years ago.
Oh, and I’ve suddenly liaised I’ve been singing the wrong words to Toto’s “Africa” for thirty years. I’ve realised it’s “I bless the rains down in Africa” not “I guess the rain’s down in Africa” as I’ve always thought it was.
Although there’s a lot of Swedish commentary throughout the program, there’s more than enough English for non-Swedes to also enjoy the program. So if you’re of a certain age, or you just like 80s pop, I’d recommend watching the program.
Over the weekend, I had the pleasure of recording an interview for The Limb Shift with Professor Brendan Burkett OAM, an Australian Paralympian and esteemed retired academic. The Limb Shift, launching this October, explores authentic stories of life with limb loss and limb difference. Brendan’s journey—sparked by a life-changing accident—offers profound insights into resilience and adaptation. Ahead of our launch, here is a preview of his perspective.
In December 1985, Brendan Burkett’s life changed in an instant following a hit-and-run accident that left him with a broken pelvis and a leg fractured in thirteen places.
When faced with the life-changing decision to amputate his leg on New Year’s Day, Brendan’s characteristic optimism surfaced immediately. “I said, ‘Oh, well, at least I’ll start the year on the right foot,’” he recounts. This perspective became his guiding philosophy: “You’ve got to take a positive approach to things, as annoying, frustrating, and difficult as they are… you’re either going to get on with this or you’re going to lie around and mope.”
Unable to continue playing football, Burkett turned to swimming. The water provided a unique sanctuary, offering a level of freedom that land-based activities could not. “I think swimming was the best thing to do because it gave you that freedom; you didn’t rely on your prosthesis. You were… you were floating. You’re in the water. You were free of other things.”
His entry into high-level competition was almost accidental. While training in a public squad, his competitiveness thrived, even when pitted against able-bodied athletes. He recalls a pivotal moment at the Queensland State Championships, where an official initially tried to prevent him from competing: “An official walked over and said, ‘Oh, listen, you’re not going to be able to swim in this event.’ And I said, ‘Hang on, the event hasn’t even started. You’ve got to give me a go.’” His coach intervened, he was permitted to swim, and this experience eventually led to his inclusion in the Paralympic movement.
Australian Paralympian and swimmer Brendan Burkett carries the Australian flag as the flag bearer leading the team at the Sydney 2000 Paralympic Games Opening Ceremony
While working on oil rigs in the North Sea, he became the first person with a disability to pass a rigorous, multi-hour offshore medical test, proving that traditional limitations were often based on assumption rather than capability. “The message is just, if you want to have a go at something, just have a go, and don’t be limited by this is the tradition, or what we can do or can’t do.”
He later transitioned into biomechanics, a field he describes as the “engineering of sport.” His background provided him with a unique advantage: “I’d look at things from a different lens… I sort of had an engineering [perspective] of how does this work? What are the mechanical principles? Whereas they would struggle with that.” This interdisciplinary approach allowed him to excel in academia and coaching, where he could combine mechanical understanding with the “lived experience of an athlete.”
Looking at the advancements in prosthetics, including osseointegration and neuro-sensors he has seen in the forty years since his amputation, Brendan is optimistic about the future. He believes that by better connecting biological signals to prosthetic components, we are moving toward a reality where human gait can be more seamlessly replicated.
Crucially, he emphasizes the importance of community and seeking support. Reflecting on his time in Paralympic squads, he notes, “You weren’t the only amputee in the swimming squad… you could talk to them about things. How do you put your shoes on? How do you go walking down stairs?”
For those navigating similar challenges, Brendan’s advice is simple: “If you really want to do something, give it a good crack.” He encourages others to avoid self-limiting thoughts. “If you say you can’t, well you’ve already got the answer,” he explains, adding that by simply attempting a task, one can often find a way to adapt, regardless of perceived obstacles.
“I think I’ve fallen in love with the DJ”, I said to a few people earlier today. We were seated (and dancing) at Sydney’s “Stonewall Hotel”, hours after participating in the Sydney WorldPride walk across the Harbour Bridge.
With everything from New Order’s “Blue Monday” to Man2Man’s “Male Stripper” and Dead Or Alive’s “You Spin Me Round”, the DJ was playing tracks from the 1980s that took me back to the much-loved, Brisbane gay bar, “The Terminus”. Not long after, the songs he played took me back to my time living in Bourke, as Midnight Oil’s “Beds Are Burning” came over the speakers. And then we got into 1980s power rock songs like “The Final Countdown” and “Poison”.
As well as the diversity in 1980s music, there was also diversity in the crowd. Though there was a slight dominance of gay men, there was diversity within the diversity of the group.
What united us was participation in the bridge walk.
Crossing the Sydney Harbour Bridge with the incomparable Manda Hatter
We were in the first group to cross the bridge, which meant we were there for the opening speeches and the acknowledgement of what this was all about: human rights.
“The first time I had sex I was breaking the law, and I could have gone to gaol”, I said to a friend, a lesbian, who is just a couple of years younger. We then reminisced about someone we both knew who was one of the known many men who were killed during the hate crimes era of the 80s and 90s. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-04-16/nsw-inquiry-into-sydney-gay-hate-deaths/100995158 We both agreed we really hoped the younger members of the LGBTQIA+ community recognise the rights they enjoy today came from the activism of people in previous generations.
And for those who think it’s “all done, settled, nothing to worry about, it’s time to move on”, I’m hoping they’ll think beyond their personal circles, and recognise there is still a long way to go. In Australia, the latest campaign concerns the rights of trans people. In other parts of the world, people are still being sentenced to death over their gender and sexuality.
I got “back on the tools” today as a working journalist (not a manager), contributing a radio and text story to the team from ABC Riverina (Wagga Wagga), where I used to work many, many years ago as the Mornings Presenter.
Even though it’s been a few decades since I lived in Wagga, I maintain friendship and professional relationships with the town. And today, it was great to reconnect with some familiar faces.
I was asked to attend an art exhibition opening at the NSW Parliament by Sally Bryant, who presents Breakfast on ABC Riverina, as she is genuinely impressed by the artists work. So was I!
Here’s the radio story I put together.
And here’s a brief text story I have also offered to the team for local publication.
Juanita McLachlin
“Standing at the heart of seven generations”
“It’s about leaving enough information, knowledge and resources for the future generations” says Juanita McLauchlan, a Gamilaraay artist living on Wiradjuri country in Wagga Wagga, whose exhibition “Standing at the heart of seven generations” is currently on display at the NSW Parliament in Sydney.
This exhibition serves as a poignant narrative of her familial and ancestral ties, with a particular emphasis on personal artifacts and adornments. It delves into the ethos of many Indigenous communities, notably the Seventh Generation philosophy, which emphasizes the enduring impact of our present actions on future generations and the Earth itself.
With nearly three decades of experience as a printmaker, Juanita McLauchlan’s artistic repertoire has expanded to encompass a diverse array of mediums, including blankets and fabrics.
Each piece, like one which portrays the Southern Cross, represents a convergence of her European and Indigenous heritage, grounding her sense of identity and place.
Her exhibition showcases a blend of materials, incorporating animal skins such as possum fur and native plants like wattle and various gum trees. These elements, sourced from the Wagga region, evoke a rich tapestry of colors and textures, symbolizing the interconnectedness of culture and environment.
A proud group of people from Wagga Wagga, attending the exhibition opening.
Some of these works have been previously displayed in Wagga Wagga, but are now finding a new audience at Sydney’s NSW Parliament House Gallery, thanks to the support of a variety organizations and individuals, including Dr Joe McGirr MP: Member for Wagga Wagga
Dr. McGirr reflects on the significance of hosting such exhibitions within the parliamentary setting, noting its role in confronting Australia’s colonial history and sparking meaningful dialogue. He commends Juanita McLauchlan’s work for its ability to inspire hope while addressing uncomfortable truths.
This beautiful thought-provoking exhibition is at the NSW Parliament Gallery on Macquarie Street, Sydney, until April 29th.
At the conclusion of the exhibition and our radio interview, Juanita presented me with a beautiful piece, made from wool and possum fur.
April 4 : A reminder in the midst of the “lock down” you don’t HAVE to watch TV. Radio is pretty awesome too, esp since you can simultaenously cook and clean, or have a glass of wine on the balcony.
April 9 : Forget online dating, my current online fantasy involves tracked information from Google Flights. I’ll probably have to re-adjust the dates, but it’s awesome to receive these kind of updates.
April 10 : The NRL & The Five Stages Of Grief 1. Denial: no, it’s not happening, we’ll keep going on. 2. Anger: ok, fine, if you insist, we’ll stop. 3. Bargaining: It’s gonna fine, we’ll come back in May, okay? Still to come stage 4. Depression and finally 5. Acceptance
April 14 : Are we looking too much to the Northern hemisphere for guidance on COVID-19? We’re now heading into the traditional flu season here in the Southern hemisphere, and I wonder if things may get worse over the next few months. Sorry for the doom and gloom, I’ve just been wondering.
April 16 : Hubba hubba. @TomChivers : OF COURSE the Swedish deputy state epidemiologist looks like this
April 16 : Donald Trump and the five stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. I think we’ve gone pretty strongly from denial into anger.April 16 : Life Aged 20 : There’s a thing happening on Twitter, where people are posting photographs of themselves, aged 20. I couldn’t find one aged 20, but here’s my Brideshead Revisited themed, “21st Birthday” at Tarragindi in Brisbane. Stanley Leasingham cask wine. Classy.
April 20 :Interesting observations on the ABC in @TurnbullMalcolm‘s book, out today. Personally, I don’t like mung beans, nor lattes. And, I must get me an Akubra.. (My response: I don’t have a photograph of me in an akubra, but I do have this.)
April 26 : Sitting on the couch, a bit bored, and then all of a sudden I heard that familiar sound. Not many kids in our street, but he did a good trade in grown up kids!April 29 : It’s International Dance Day. In the midst of this terrible situation, this is just the day to put on some of your favourite music and get dancing!!! It will make you feel awesome!!
It may surprise you to discover there’s a statue of Mary Poppins in a park in the NSW country town, Bowral. I hadn’t realised the town’s connection until I visited a couple of years ago.
Though Mary Poppins is very obviously set in London, there’s an Australian connection to the story, as the author P.L. Travers came from Australia. Most commonly associated with Maryborough in Queensland, she once lived in Bowral, and apparently, that’s where the Mary Poppins character was created.
Statue of Mary Poppins in Bowral, NSW.
There’s a wonderful film about P.L. Travers called “Saving Mr Banks”, which begins with her life growing up in Queensland in a very dysfunctional family. The film goes on to recount her reaction as Walt Disney turned the story into a musical with cartoon elements. She hated it!
But I loved the film, “Saving Mr Banks”. It’s a great story, well told, with Emma Thompson and Tom Hanks in staring roles.
I also loved seeing the production of “Mary Poppins”, currently playing at Sydney’s Lyric Theatre.
At the time I was pretty blown away by the scene where Mary flew above the audience.
The special effects in the current production go way beyond that. There were moments when my friend and I laughed out loud. “How the fuck did they do that?”, I whispered in my friend’s ear, mostly in disbelief.
The performances are wonderful, especially seeing legendary actor and singer, Nancy Hayes playing the woman selling bread to feed the birds. “Tuppence, tuppence, tuppence a bag”. Everyone is wonderful.
I would HIGHLY HIGHLY HIGHLY recommend seeing this if you’re able.
Mary Poppins at Sydney’s Lyric Theatre
Though I didn’t see any of the rehearsals for the show, it seems they took place in the rehearsal rooms at the ABC, which are available for rent. This leads me to an update on work.
There’s been a bit of LGBTQIA+ focus on my work over the last few days.
As you may know, the ABC is now the Media Partner for the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras, and World Pride in Sydney. There was a big “meet and greet” at the ABC this week with the organisers of World Pride. Lots of confidential information, to be revealed later. However, I can tell you what they’re planning is amazing. Book your tickets as soon as they go on sale.
And then yesterday, I attended the AWEI LGBTQ Workplace Inclusion Awards. Once again, the ABC scored “Gold Employer” status which was very exciting, recognising the work being done behind the scenes to make the ABC a better place to work for LGBTQIA+.
ABC Pride Chair, Manda Hatter and ABC Managing Director, David Anderson accept the “Gold Employer” award at the AWEI LGBTQ Workplace Inclusion Awards.
“That was a wonderful speech. You made me cry a little bit”, I told him, noting we both joined the ABC in 1989, both in South Australia, and both remember the days when the ABC maybe wasn’t as “inclusive” as it is now.
The team from ABC Pride, along with Chris Nelson from ACON and David Anderson, ABC Managing Director at the AWEI Awards.
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I agree with you completely and have been trying to be better about this! Particularly I’m trying to be aware more of the external environment – like paying attention to my surroundings (the weather, the passers-by, buildings, traffic – anything) while waiting for something/someone,
I love the screenshot of your home screen. Apart from the ubiquitous mail/weather/calendar/maps, we only have 4 apps in common. I had no idea you were on instagram!
We are living in transitional times with mobile phones. People are missing buses and trams because they are engrossed in their phones, and with earphones in their ears. They are walking into people and poles. I’ve seen people accuse others of being preoccupied with their phones instead of paying attention, only to note that the person who criticised does the same thing. People are not tuned into their surrounds at all and put themselves at risk. It was a few years ago when we dined at a restaurant popular with Chinese people. The next table were all young, probably students. They were all on their phones as they chose their meals from the menu, yet once the food arrived, phones were down and they talked. As I said, we are in transitional times. However, people do need to observe mobile phone manners. I am sure if you google it, you will get the gist, but do it beforehand, not when you are at dinner. Hmm, kinda of wish that I made this my own post.
I’m hoping you’re right also, Andrew. I’m hoping the technology remains new enough that we haven’t really worked out yet how it impacts our lives. Thanks VG, much appreciated. Carol – you’ve inspired me. I don’t really use it that much except for following Swedish celebrities (there isn’t a specific app for that yet!!) but have added my feed here.
I’ve just returned from Bali and on one night a long table of (I think) Japanese teenagers were seated near to us. Every single one was deep into their mobile phone. Their meals arrived and to a person their dishes remained untouched until they must have turned cold. Finally one started to eat and in turn all the others followed each eating with one hand and manipulating their phone with the other. Once finished eating each started a cigarette with one hand maintaining the mobile action with the other hand. I doubt more than a dozen words passed between them during the hour or so we sat alongside.
I agree with you completely and have been trying to be better about this! Particularly I’m trying to be aware more of the external environment – like paying attention to my surroundings (the weather, the passers-by, buildings, traffic – anything) while waiting for something/someone,
I love the screenshot of your home screen. Apart from the ubiquitous mail/weather/calendar/maps, we only have 4 apps in common. I had no idea you were on instagram!
James, I absolutely love this blog. You nailed it. You hit observational truth. It’s wonderful. VG
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We are living in transitional times with mobile phones. People are missing buses and trams because they are engrossed in their phones, and with earphones in their ears. They are walking into people and poles. I’ve seen people accuse others of being preoccupied with their phones instead of paying attention, only to note that the person who criticised does the same thing. People are not tuned into their surrounds at all and put themselves at risk. It was a few years ago when we dined at a restaurant popular with Chinese people. The next table were all young, probably students. They were all on their phones as they chose their meals from the menu, yet once the food arrived, phones were down and they talked. As I said, we are in transitional times. However, people do need to observe mobile phone manners. I am sure if you google it, you will get the gist, but do it beforehand, not when you are at dinner. Hmm, kinda of wish that I made this my own post.
I’m hoping you’re right also, Andrew. I’m hoping the technology remains new enough that we haven’t really worked out yet how it impacts our lives. Thanks VG, much appreciated. Carol – you’ve inspired me. I don’t really use it that much except for following Swedish celebrities (there isn’t a specific app for that yet!!) but have added my feed here.
I’ve just returned from Bali and on one night a long table of (I think) Japanese teenagers were seated near to us. Every single one was deep into their mobile phone. Their meals arrived and to a person their dishes remained untouched until they must have turned cold. Finally one started to eat and in turn all the others followed each eating with one hand and manipulating their phone with the other. Once finished eating each started a cigarette with one hand maintaining the mobile action with the other hand. I doubt more than a dozen words passed between them during the hour or so we sat alongside.