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There was a moment of pure joy last night, as I found myself singing along to Miley Cyrus’s “Flowers” alongside my dear friend Michaela and a crowd of two hundred enthusiastic participants at a collective singing event.
We were gathered at the “Great Club” in Marrickville, formerly a Greek restaurant, now transformed into a hub for community gatherings. The occasion? An evening with The “Wellcome Choir,” promising a transformative journey through music and voice.
This wasn’t Michaela’s first rodeo; she’s attended a couple of these events before, where scores of people come together in harmony. Perhaps you’ve heard of Pub Choir, renowned for filling iconic venues like The Enmore Theatre.
The “Great Club” was packed to the brim, though not without its quirks—namely, the absence of food. We learned from the bartender that they usually have food trucks on standby, but luck wasn’t on our side. Our dinner consisted of sharing a packet of chicken chips, but luckily, a nearby Chinese restaurant saved the day for our post-event meal, leaving me with delicious leftovers for today.
The event spanned 90 to 120 minutes, beginning with the group divided into three vocal sections: tops, bottoms, and those of us in the middle holding the melody. Being one of the few men in attendance, my voice naturally gravitated towards the lower register. Admittedly, I’m not exactly a singing virtuoso, but in that moment, it didn’t matter; the evening was about collective experience rather than individual skill.
We rehearsed the song line by line until we had it down pat, then took a well-deserved break before returning to perform the song three times, including a live stream on Facebook. The woman leading the choir, Bec Jenson was fantastic. As well as having a good voice, she seemed to love playing with the crowd, making for an enjoyable evening.
It was an unforgettable event, filled with camaraderie and shared passion for music.
As for the song itself, “Flowers,” it held a special place in my heart. During my lengthy stay in the hospital last year, its lyrics brought me solace and joy. Despite its theme of heartbreak, the essence of self-love and empowerment resonated deeply.
I can buy myself flowers
Flowrs by Miley Cyrus
Write my name in the sand
Talk to myself for hours
Say things you don’t understand
I can take myself dancing
And I can hold my own hand
Yeah, I can love me better than you can
And there it was, the line that struck a chord with me the most: “I can take myself dancing…”
Maybe next time?
It’s Sunday afternoon/evening. I’m sitting here with a blanket over my knees. I’m freezing. I can’t decide if it’s because it really is cold, or if it’s because I have spent the whole day in bed. I worked last night until 6am, so I slept almost all of the day away until about 5pm.
At 10.42 yesterday, Damien and I caught the train to Rosehill Race Course for the annual Sydney Markets Race Day. We calculated that it’s about the fifth or sixth time that we’ve attended the race day and this time was probably the best.
We arrived early this time because we could. Until now, we have always been a little late, due to Damien’s work commitments. This year, however, we were able to leave early and get there early, early enough for the first race, which we watched from downstairs before heading upstiars for lunch.
It was a bright, sunny day, although the track was declared slow, as Damien discovered as he checked the form.
Another reason for being downstairs was so that I could take some really great photographs close up.
The first horse I saw was, in fact, my first and best winner of the day, returning me a $23.50 profit. I can’t remember its name now, but I thought it sounded to have good form and, being close to where the horses were lining up, I thought it looked like a good horse. What would I know?
We spent the next few hours wining and dining and betting on races upstairs in the Marscay Room. I had a few good conversations, including with Thomas George, the Member for Lismore. Damien also really enjoyed chatting with Sue and Richard about their trip to France last year.
Soon after the last race, we caught the train back to the city.
Damien had suggested earlier in the day we might also have dinner at Pazzo that evening, so we booked a table and had an enjoyable meal. What a great end to a day together!
About the only thing that made me smile at today’s Anti-Apec Protest in the city was the two naked guys with socks covering their genitals. Although I’m not entirely sure about the point they were making – I couldn’t read the badly-written signs they had covering their rear-ends – they certainly attracted a lot of attention, especially from the media. And for my part, I kept giggling about how they were constantly re-arranging their socks which looked in danger of falling off as they walked along, perhaps due to the cold weather.


The nude protest was about the only humour apparent in the protest held today at Town Hall before making its way to Hyde Park. For the most part it was a protest by the usual suspects using the same old anti-Howard/Bush (but Labor is no better) kind of rhetoric. It was not a mainstream protest, by any means, unlike, for example, the Palm Sunday protest in the lead up to the Iraq War which managed to attract a broad cross-section of the public.
Noticeabley different from that protest, where people marched with confidence, was the fear you could see in the eyes of a number of protesters. For many, especially the younger ones, I’d imagine this was their first ever major protest. And as you looked in their eyes you could see concern, caution, and all those other very human feelings, as they perhaps anticipated violence or being arrested.
And chances of them being arrested were probably pretty good, as I’d NEVER seen such a significant police presence in the city before. In my estimation there would have been two or three hundred police officers (actually probably more) either in groups of two or three or in lines forming a barricade to direct the protest towards Hyde Park, or at key locations such as outside the Commonwealth Bank and Starbucks. Clearly, the police were anticipating trouble.
But in Sydney we’re not one for the violent, riotous protest, as I explained to a colleague from Melbourne a couple of weeks ago. “We don’t riot in Sydney”, I told him. Another colleague here in Sydney told me yesterday she thought it was because we’re superficial. In Sydney, she said “people would rather go to the beach than march down the streets and it’s because Sydney lack sthe intellectual culture that Melbourne has.” I don’t think she’s right about that, I think we just don’t believe in violent protest as a means to achieve things.
And I think much of that derives from the more multicultural nature of Sydney, being made up of so many people who had left behind violent cultures when they came to Australia, and who “freeze” at the prospect of seeing violence in the streets. I think there’s also an element of practicality, in that geographically-speaking, Sydney doesn’t have the same CBD-focus as Melbourne.
Whatever the case, I’m pleased there wasn’t violence on the streets of Sydney today. And thank goodness for the nude blokes who brought a bit of humour into it all.
When you’re in a new town or city, a place you’ve never been before, you should always head first to the main church and to the main public arts building. In towns and cities where there aren’t too many sky-scrapers, the main church usually has an excellent view of the city. In a more modern sense, prominent arts buildings (such as an opera house or a museum), usually have great restaurants and cafes which overlook the city.
I would have liked to have taken the elevator to the top of the main church, but there was a funeral there today, and I thought it would be somewhat mercenary to be ranging around waiting for the hearse to leave. Instead, I visited the Recital Hall and Conference Centre, with its unashamedly modern architectural style. In some ways, the design reminded me of the water cube in Beijing, from the outside at least. It’s fairly new, with construction slowed by the economic collapse which occurred. There was hardly anyone there when I visited later in the morning, wandering comfortably through all five levels by myself. At one point, from the fifth level, it was great to sit, quietly, on a comfy leather lounge and enjoy the stunning view of the nearby mountains.

As you do your tourism research, it seems much of the tourist attention for Iceland is focussed on the outdoors experience. It wouldn’t surprise me if a lot of people arrive from overseas and go straight to the countryside, ignoring Reykjavik. I’ll be doing that later in the week, heading off on a two-day trip looking at volcanoes, walking on glaciers and the like. But my personal interests are usually far more cultural. For me, travel is about getting to know the place, to meet some locals, and to better understand the background of why they write, sing, act, and paint/photograph the things they do.

I popped into a couple of commercial galleries today and took a look at the art on display. As with many commercial galleries, there was nothing which really touched me. I’m guessing the more interesting works may be found at the national gallery and museum which I plan to visit later in the week. There was a photographic gallery, though, which I thought looked really interesting. Out the front of the gallery, they were promoting the book, “Shot In Reykjavik” which featured a lot of street photography.

I also noticed there were lots of record stores around the central parts of town, many of them specialising in the music from Iceland. Although I certainly know Iceland which has produced a lot of great music in the last few days, my specific musical knowledge doesn’t extend far beyond Bjork. Her album, Debut, remains one of my all time favourites. It was interesting to have a look through some of the stores and to listen to some of the local music. Located roughly half way between the United States and Europe, the cultural influences of both locations seemed evident.
Later in the afternoon I called in to a bar called Kofinn, hoping to hear a little more in the way of Icelandic music playing softly in the background. “It’s Happy Hour”, the young American bloke behind the bar told me, adding I was eligible for their two-for-one beer option. Winner. But it wasn’t so much the beer that attracted me to the bar as the sign outside which offered Free Wi-Fi. Inside there was only about a dozen people (including myself) and it was almost completely silent. In the main part of the bar there were three young people seated at a nearby table. Two of them had computers. The other had a smart phone. They were all on Facebook. Occasionally they would communicate with each other (in Icelandic), but mostly they were just sitting there looking at their screens. The other reason it was quite in the bar, and I did smile when I realised the reason for their quietness, was there was a large group of deaf people at the other main table. It seems I’ll need to look elsewhere to find a bar where they play local tunes softly in the background.

In terms of architecture, you can’t help but noticed the large amount of construction work going on in the centre of town. There are lots of multi-story apartment blocks being built. The construction is not without controversy if you look closely at some of the graffiti and protest signs I noticed around town. “Money destroying art and culture” was one of the messages I saw written on one wall in a central area of town with a lot of high density housing covered in street art.
I finished the day with an evening dip, once again at my “local” thermal pool. The crowd on both nights has consisted of family and friend groups of all ages. A guy started chatting to me tonight, and then quickly switched to English when I gave him that blank look. When he asked me why I’d come to Iceland, I told him because I thought it would be so completely different to Australia. “We’re at opposite sides of the world and in opposite hemispheres”, I told him. Of course he asked if I was planning to go to the world famous Blue Lagoon hot baths, and when I told him yes, I asked him what he thought of them. He looked at another bloke who was in the pool for guidance, and told me “Sometimes they’re good and sometimes they’re not so good. You should go when the weather’s fine”, he added. I read somewhere the other day locals don’t go there so much anymore, as they’re very expensive in comparison with the local public pools. Another guy, sitting nearby, tried to explain how the Blue Lagoon was constructed, but his English wasn’t up to the task, and so he explained in Swedish instead.
A little while later, as I was enjoying the cooler water of the main swimming pool, an American guy asked me, “Excuse me, are there pools here with different water temperatures?”. “Yes” I told him, pointing him in the right direction. When he asked about the temperatures, I joked they came in hot, hotter, and hotter again. After trying out the hottest one, he very quickly joined me back in the much milder one. Clearly, the hot water/sauna thing is something it takes a little while for non-Icelanders while to get used to.

I almost cried when I saw this photograph. “What on earth have they been through to make such a declaration”, I asked myself. “We dared to break all contact with our mother” is such an incredibly sad statement. You just know that whatever’s happened must have been difficult for both the daughters and the mother.
It’s one of a series of images – about daring to do things – in a music video by the Swedish group, Säkert, a group I discovered about twelve months ago. Their song, Fredrik has been a real favourite of mine in the time since. I even translated it for Swedish class.
And now they’ve translated Fredrik into English also. Though the translation takes on a very different form, and personally, I don’t think it sounds as good in English as it did in Swedish.
As she explains on her website
“What if”, I thought, “I translate them almost word by word, and it nearly turns into a third language, English words used in a Swedish way?”*
And that’s what she’s done. Love the concept.
The last group to do that was ABBA! Well, maybe not intentially, but their song Fernando contains a wonderful example of a phrase that makes perfect sense in Swedish “sedan många år” (since many years) which makes absolutely no sense in English. We would never say “since many years” in English, though, thanks to ABBA, that’s maybe no longer the case.
Anyway, here’s a very beautiful example of Säkert with a song that was once “på svenska” but which is now “in English”.
“I remember visiting Ophir in about the year 2000”, I told Sue as we made our way along the road. In modern times, Ophir was the place where gold was first discovered in Australia, and the site of the first gold field. As I recalled, small flecks of gold from Ophir was used in the medals for the Sydney Olympics.

“I doubt the mine is still open now”, I said to Sue. The guy who ran it was a fair age at the time. I haven’t been able to find any recent references to the mine, so I’d be keen if anyone reading this post has any knowledge of what happened between now and my visit there in 2000.
The road to Ophir was a long and dusty one. It’s maybe twenty kilometres from when you first see the “Welcome To Ophir” sign until you arrive at the beautiful camping ground down by the creek where miners would have once panned for gold. Along the way, you can visit a couple of other nice creek-beds, as well as an historic cemetery.


From there we headed to Millthorpe, another “historic town” in the area. Millthorpe had a weekend vibe about it, and we noticed some of the shops declared their opening hours were only Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Still, it was nice to walk around and to look in the shop windows.
We also visited the recreation area at Lake Canobolas and the Nashdale Lanes winery.

Though there are lots of wineries in the area, we chose Nashdale because the son of a former school-mate is now working there on the cellar door. “Oh my goodness he looks like Amanda”, I said to Sue, noting the area around his eyes. We assured Amanda via Messenger he was very good at his job, having moved to the area only fairly recently, after previously managing a wine bar in Brisbane.
Due to social distancing there were limits on the number of people who could attend tastings. We arrived at exactly the right time. Along with us there were a couple of families in school holidays (the kids played outside while the parents did the tastings), as well as a couple of couples.
The wines were good too. We tasted half a dozen and bought a few bottles to take with us.
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