Having made the rather rash decision – by my standards – to book a mid-year holiday to Stockholm at around the time of Stockholm Pride, I’ve begun to make some plans, make a few bookings, and generally look around for interesting things to do.
I have booked a small studio apartment in a building that’s about to open – I think it opens tomorrow – about ten minutes by the Tunnelbana (metro) from the centre of Stockholm. As it’s a new apartment, I’m sure there’ll be a few bugs here and there, but I also assume it’s going to be clean and modern which I think is rather important. While it’s all very good to stay in an historic building, my travel experiences tell me they usually have bad plumbing and no lifts. At the end of a long day, I’d rather some of the creature comforts, even if the building does look a little modern and impersonal. Also on my previous visits I’ve moved around a bit from location to location, so it will be a new experience to “stay put” for a few weeks and to have somewhere to call home.
Obviously I’ve been checking out the Stockholm Pride website to see what’s on this year, though there’s little detail at the moment. That’s not so surprising, though, as my experience from previous years is that it’s often quite late before they announce too many details.
I’ve been checking out some of the summer concert tours, but haven’t found all that much that interests yet. Inevitably I’m sure I’ll go to Allsång på Skansen which usually features a range of popular Swedish performers. The schlager night on Mondays at Victorias on Kungsträdgården is already in my diary as a weekly “must do”. I’ve have beooked a ticket to see Swedish singer, Peter Jöback supported by Cookies N Beans (Swedish bluegrass) which I’m sure will be fun. I’d love to see some of the new performers I’ve discovered over the last few years like Säkert and Bo Kaspers Orkester (and others) and I’m generally keen to discover new stuff though, so if you have any recommendations, I’d really appreciate your thoughts.
I’ve been trying to book to do the Stieg Larsson Millenium Tour, a walking tour which covers the buildings and locations covered in the Millenium series of books but have been experiencing difficulties. In the past I’ve found I’ve been unable to use my Australian credit card for purchasing tickets on some Swedish websites, and I think that’s happening again. I’ll keep trying, because the tour looks wonderful. My friend Grant did the tour in October last year and has some wonderful photographs of what it’s like.
There’s also an ABBA City Walk which recounts many of the places and locations related to ABBA and their career which looks like interesting.
I’m most excited, however, about having booked one of the Stockholm Roof Top Tours.
Thirty-something years ago when I was in the early throes of adolescence I thought “Blankety Blanks” was about the best thing there could be. It was entertaining, it was witty, it had a lovely collegiate feel about it, and it was slightly smutty. For me, there was nothing better than sitting down to watch “Blankety Blanks”, first on TVO (as it was called then) from Brisbane, and then later on our local television station, NRTV (though I have a sneaky suspicion we were still calling it 11-8 then).
Thirty years later and I’m still watching “Blankety Blanks”, though now, of course, it’s in repeat on Foxtel. Tonight’s contestants were a woman who had just married eight months earlier and who was on the show to win some money together for a house deposit, and a bloke who managed Kentucky Fried Chicken in King’s Cross. Yes, we still called it “Kentucky Fried Chicken” then before the word “fried” was banned from their vocabulary. I wonder whatever happened to the people who were contestants on “Blankety Blanks”?
And what about some of the panelists? Mark Holden has recently qualified with a law degree and is now a barrister. Joy Chambers married Reg Grundy and moved to The Bahamas. Johnny Pace is still trading on his career as host of “The Celebrity Game”. And of course, a few of them are dead. On tonight’s show Barry Creighton was also going on about going to “City Gym”. How DIDN’T we know? :)
Yup. That’s how I’m spending my Saturday night, watching “Blankety Blanks”. Glamorous, eh? After a reasonably busy day at work, I’m back at home in my tracky-dacks and watching 1970s game shows. Is this the life I dreamed of? :)
Seriously though, it’s interesting to reflect on how life can change. Fifteen years ago when I first moved to Sydney, a Saturday night would inevitably involve going out to a restaurant, and then hitting a club with some mates. Ten years ago when I was firmly in “relationship mode”, a Saturday night might have involved a dinner party, a night at the theatre, and then maybe a quick drink before heading home. Five years ago, I was back in the fifteen years ago stage, albeit on a more sedate, mature level. And now, in 2010, my Saturday night has come to watching “Blankety Blanks” and chatting to people on Twitter.
I’m not complaining about my lot by any means. I have a great life. Interesting, though, how life changes. Nonetheless, I still love “Blankety Blanks”.
It was Wednesday. I got up. I went to work. I ate a brief lunch. I listened to a few people complain. I met up with Damien. And then I went to the pub, as usual for a Wednesday night. It was a mixed day.
My initial attraction to “Mothers and Sons” was Tim Draxl. I’ve followed his career since the 90s, and fondly remember interviewing him as a nineteen or twenty year old singer “on the way up”. Since then, I’ve seen him perform a number of times, and I’ve seen him in a number of movies.
Mothers and Sons at Ensemble Theatre
It was also quite a while since I’ve seen a play at Sydney’s Ensemble Theatre. As I made my way to the theatre, I thought about my friend Colin who died last year. We were “regulars” at The Ensemble, having attended opening nights on many occasions. Since Colin’s move to Newcastle (when he became ill), and his passing, I haven’t been to The Ensemble nearly enough.
Colin would have enjoyed the play, and yet he would also have been frustrated by it. The plot concerns a modern day gay couple living in New York with a son. Out of the blue, the mother of one of the men’s former partner turns up. Twenty years after his death, she remains unreconciled with her son’s sexuality and his death from HIV/AIDS. Over the course of about 100 minutes, she achieves “reconciliation”. Frustratingly, for me, the play seemed to wrap things up a little too quickly, a little too easily.
That said, I still enjoyed the play. The characters were all still believable. And having enjoyed Anne Tenney play “Molly” on “A Country Practice” all those years ago, it was great to see her on stage for the very first time. I also smiled when I saw Grant Dodwell who played “Simon” on “A Country Practice” in the audience, and chatting at the bar earlier in the afternoon.
Mothers and Sons at Ensemble
Oh yeah, and The Ensemble has a terrific harbour view.
“You see that building in front of us?”, the taxi driver said to me. As I looked ahead at the large, non-descript building, he told me, “It was a prison and during the days of apartheid, they used to keep political prisoners in there. They would torture them and often throw them out of the windows so they would fall to their deaths.”
My taxi driver was an older black man (probably in his 60s, I thought) who told me had lived in Johannesburg all of his life. What changes he must have seen, I thought to myself as he drove me from where I’m staying in Melville to the Apartheid Museum. “Johannesburg is a town for young people. It’s so hectic lots of older people move out to the countryside”, he told me, though adding he had no such plans himself.
Taxi ride in Johannesburg
As he dropped me off he twice used the phrase, “It’s very sympathetic” to describe the museum. A similarly aged white woman from an Afrikaans background had earlier told me the museum was “very fair about what happened”.
Apartheid Museum, Johannesburg
Inside the museum those attending were predominantly quite young. The exceptions were myself and an older man (mid 50s) who was pushing his father around in a wheelchair. There were probably more white people than black people (though not overwhelmingly so), and as I listened to the accents of the conversations of those around me, I would say half were international tourists and half were South Africans.
As you enter the museum and look down at your ticket you’re immediately confronted by the phrase “Your ticket to the museum has randomly classified you as either ‘white’ or ‘non-white”. Mine declared me as “non-white”. That meant I entered the museum through a separate gate to the older man and his father. As we entered through our separate entrances, I looked up at some of the signs of the apartheid era which declared train platforms, restrooms and the like as being for “Europeans only. Slegs blankes”.
You then walk through an area where there are images of modern day South Africans on mirrored walls. You soon discover these people are descendants of many well known names from the apartheid era.
As we all three entered the museum at about the same time, the older man and his father began a conversation with me. As we looked from the roof-top of the museum towards the city, the older man asked me if there was “…anything about the truth about South Africa” I would like to know. Unsure of how to respond, and somewhat fearful I might have been in the company of people who might have been about to tell me the museum was a fiction, I mumbled something about being a tourist from Australia and so I knew nothing at all. As he pointed out the different city landmarks, he added he has an interest in military history and was thinking of putting together a day-tour for tourists that would cover things like the Boer War. He asked me if I thought $130 for the day for a personalised tour was expensive. I said “for a personalised tour that would be okay”. “Of course, you Australians are doing very well now”, he told me, adding two of his daughters now live in Sydney.
Apartheid Museum, Johannesburg
The museum takes you back to the early days of the discovery of gold in Johannesburg, noting how the city had very quickly become one of the most multi-cultural cities in the world. There was unease, even in the early days about the “mixing” of nationalities.
In the wake of the war between the English and The Afrikaans which resulted in a “white union”, black people were then officially denied the right to vote in all areas (except the Cape Territory). Over the next forty years or so, an official policy of segregation existed which the museum explains what partly about race, and partly about managing white and black labour.
The museum then explains that by about the mid 1940s, when they were still having problems “managing labour”, the National Party differentiated itself from the other political parties by adopting apartheid. Unlike segregation which was about keeping people separate from each other, apartheid was more about forced settlement, as people were literally often moved overnights from their homes.
As I made my way around the Apartheid Museum, I thought about what the taxi driver had told me about the political prisoners, the gaol, and the torture. In particular, I thought about it when I came across a list of political prisoners who had died while in custody. A significant number of them had died from “suicide by hanging”.
The museum covers the resistance to apartheid, including by many white South Africans. There’s a particularly memorable piece of video which features a group of young white women standing in a line protesting against apartheid (probably in the 1960s, by the way they were dressed). As the camera goes along the line you can see the nervousness in their eyes, as in speaking out, they were perhaps fearful for their own safety, also.
The story inevitably leads you to the story of the African National Congress, and in particular to the story of Nelson Mandela. There’s actually a major temporary exhibition at the museum right now about Mandela or “Madiba” as he is now commonly called. The exhibition covers a lot of his life story, growing up in a small village predominantly surrounded by women; and a a video where he talks about his tribal circumcision (I know it’s “traditional” but still gross :)) at the age of sixteen.
In the midst of the grimness of what occurred in South Africa, there are moments of great joy, particularly around Mandela’s release from prison and becoming the first black president. There’s a particularly heart-warming piece of video (and story) around when South Africa defeated New Zealand in rugby union. The accompanying story-board tells you rugby union was, for many years, almost completely a “white sport” in South Africa. That all changed when Mandela turned up for the match in a stadium “where 95% were white” and embraces the players. The story-board tells you there was a moment of silence until someone began the slow chant, “Man-del-a” which eventually engulfs the entire stadium.
The exhibition about Mandela was, by far, the most popular part of the museum today. With the way his health is (or isn’t), I guess it’s a time for many people to go in, absorb themselves in his story, and to reflect on his life and work. I smiled, in particular, when I saw two white South African women (probably sisters by the way they looked) who were there with a young boy (of about seven or eight. He was wearing a Mandela t-shirt, and they were doing their best to explain to him the story behind many of the exhibition panels.
I really enjoyed the museum, despite the subject matter. I spent well over three hours walking around the museum and probably could have stayed longer. The only thing that made me decide it was time to move on was hunger pains! Unfortunately the museum cafe wasn’t open today.
Later in the afternoon I caught a taxi to Ghandi Square where I bought a pre-paid SIM card. As I looked around, there was evidence of a fair bit of poverty, and a fair of addiction. There was one woman showing signs of long-term addiction who came into the Vodafone shop while I was there and caused the staff a fair bit of grief. Despite the negatives, as I looked around I just saw lots of people getting on with their lives. That said, I took the advice I’ve read where you shouldn’t flash your mobile phone around, you should be careful with your money, and walk with the confidence of a local rather than as a wandering bleary-eyed tourist.
In the taxi on the way back to Melville, the driver and I listened to the radio. There was a news bulletin in another language which, of course, I didn’t understand until I heard the word “Mandela”. “What did they say?” I asked him. He told me his condition “was not good” and that he had “been critical but stable” for a week now. He was the first person I’ve spoken to who conceded Mandela was an old man and that maybe his time was up.
In contrast, the news bulletins on television keep optimistically talking about a recovery. On the “feel good breakfast show” (they actually use that phrase) on television this morning, they had a panel of people talking about the lessons which “all of us can learn from Nelson Mandela”, which I thought was very moving.
The other thing I noticed from watching breakfast television this morning was the large number of advertisements for funeral plans. Not being able to afford the expenses associated with a family funeral is obviously something which plays on the minds of many South Africans. Enough to at least see lengthy, almost “glossy” advertisements from three separate funeral plan companies during an hour of the breakfast show alone.
Arriving back in Melville late this afternoon, I called into the “Six Cocktail Bar” for a glass of wine and something to eat. Up there on the wall, along with those iconic images of Marilyn Monroe, Che Guevara and Bob Marley, was another iconic figure. Who else could it be but Madiba smiling down upon us?
PS. There’s a sign which asks you not to take photographs INSIDE the Apartheid Museum, so that’s why there none on this blog post, just in case you were wondering.
Something must have gone horribly wrong in the kitchen at Tabou Restaurant in Surry Hills tonight. There was a period of between 30 and 45 minutes where absolutely NOTHING emerged from the kitchen. We imagined for a just a moment a scene reminiscent of “Fawlty Towers”. You know the episode where everything goes horribly wrong and Basil is forced to drive back and forwards in his mini to obtain meals from another nearby restaurant? You could see the signs of frustration on the faces of the waiters, though the patrons (including us) seemed to just take it on board, and we saw no evidence of people getting uptight. Aside from that slight delay, tonght’s “Taste Of Provence” menu was excellent.
The five courses – consisting of Zucchini flowers and salt cod fritters, Coffin Bay mussels, Lamb cutlets, St Marcellin fromage and a cherry clafoutis with honey ice cream – were all excellent. They were also matched extremely well with a variety of French and Australian wines. In some cases the matching was unexpectedly good, such as the combination of the St Marcellin fromage with lavash and grapes with a Grenache-Shiraz from Corbieres. And while a night at Tabou is not exactly in the price range of a McValue Meal, we both thought the summer degustation menu was excellent value.
One of the many things we noticed about the evening was the absence of “street smokers” outside Tabou. Ever since the new smoking laws came into place, espcially with the hotels, Crown Street at night has become awash with people. It can be a real pain the arse trying to walk home from Coles when there seem to be more people on the footpath than actually inside the restaurant. But tonight Tabou was packed and with one or two exceptions, everyone was happy to remain indoors.
As we chatted about a variety of issues, Damo asked me when the new “small bar laws” were coming into force in NSW? Dunno, I replied. He mentioned a friend who works in the industry, who planned to open a small bar as soon as possible, had told him small bar applications were going into the liquor licensing authority at a current rate of about sixty a month. We both concluded, as in Melbourne, many of them would close soon after opening, when their lack of sustainability became evident. However for a brief period of time later this year Sydney will have almost as many small bars as you find people outside on the streets of Surry Hills as night.
Amongst the many people we saw walk past tonight (we had a window seat) was fellow blogger, Monty. It was the second time I’ve seen him out and about in the area in the last month. With visitors to the area like Monty, you know the area has become fashionable! :)
The other sign of Surry Hills fashionability is that Lachlan Murdoch has well and truly found himself a home in the ‘hood. In August 2006, it was reported in The Sydney Morning Herald Lachan had paid $4.3 million for a two-storey Surry Hills warehouse on Nickson Street.
In May. Murdoch’s search for office space ended when he paid $4.3 million for a two-storey Surry Hills warehouse on Nickson Street. The building, between Crown and Bourke streets, is halfway between his present News Ltd office in Holt Street and Aussie Stadium. The premises are destined to become the headquarters for his new company, Illyria Pty Ltd, named after an island off Croatia he once sailed around and not from Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night, as speculated. There has been talk the 700-odd square metre Surry Hill’s warehouse will soon undergo renovations in preparation for Murdoch’s arrival, but this week the darkened building lay deserted.
That’s my street, I thought to myself at the time. “What’s Lachlan doing in my street in that old warehouse?”, I wondered. In the time since they’ve installed frosted windows and security doors, and aside from the occasional flash car in the street, you would never know I am often never more than 100 metres away from Lachlan Murdoch. And on Saturday and Sunday, you would never know it was where Lachlan Murdoch and Jamie Packer were finalising a multi-billion dollar media deal. As was reported in today’s edition of The Australian…
They spent Saturday and Sunday in Murdoch’s office in Surry Hills, Packer and his advisers with Murdoch and his. A constant stream of sandwiches, bottles of water and cups of coffee came through the door. The deal was only finally clinched about 10pm on Sunday.
When I read the story today, the first thing that came into my mind was “where did they get their sandwiches from”? I’m guessing it was Cafe Nikki, as it’s about the only place that’s open on the weekends who would do take-away sandwiches. And I wondered, too, if they popped down to the servo on Cleveland Steet when they needed water. Or maybe to the turkish pizza place just around the corner, as I often do? And I wondered if Jamie, who now seems more interested in gambling than media, had popped down to the TAB on the corner of Nickson and Cleveland Streets to place a bet sometime on the weekend? You often see a lot of “street smokers” there too, by the way. As far as I could see there were no flash cars, and no evidence of the rich and influential walking up and down my street, when all this was happening, But I guess it was a wet weekend…
My walking ability feels comparable to where I was towards the end of my rehabilitation at Sacred Heart in Sydney, a couple of months after my lower right leg amputation. Not the initial stages, when I was barely mobile and frequently falling, but the later phase.
After my hip fracture and replacement on Tuesday I can walk again, but it requires significant concentration.
For the last two days I’ve walked (using crutches) with a physiotherapist, who was very pleased with my progress. We covered about a hundred metres at a time, and while I could have gone further, we felt we’d achieved the day’s objective. I also practiced stairs, initially with crutches, then without, using the handrails. I’m encouraged by this progress.
Everything I’ve read suggests early and intensive rehabilitation is crucial for recovery after a hip operation/replacement.
This is why I was frustrated by the slow pace of the bureaucracy here at the hospital.
Three days post-surgery, I was still struggling to get physio support. I spent several hours on Friday asking for a physiotherapist, and none arrived until 4 PM. Compounding this frustration was the fact that I hadn’t been assessed for rehabilitation at all, nor had I been visited by anyone from the rehabilitation team. When the physiotherapist finally arrived on Friday, the one I’d hoped would facilitate a transfer, he was surprised I wasn’t already in rehabilitation. He also remarked that I seemed incredibly motivated and in an excellent position to benefit from rehab.
However, the hospital hadn’t acted on this, which is incredibly frustrating, especially since I knew I could likely obtain a bed back at Sacred Heart where they know my case well, since I spent four months there. By then, it was too late to transfer for the weekend, so I’m stuck here in the orthopedic ward at RPA. It’s essentially a medical holding area, with everyone experiencing serious mobility issues.
My own symptoms, primarily mild pain, have largely subsided. Many of the other patients are much older and require significantly more care. I feel I’d benefit far more from being in rehabilitation, actively engaging in therapy. Hopefully, that will happen tomorrow.
One positive aspect of the past few days has been the visits from friends. We’ve enjoyed spending time outside, taking advantage of the lovely weather, and having normal conversations that don’t revolve around my health.
It’s a welcome respite from the constant noise in this room. The other patients, despite being in their 80s and 90s, keep their televisions blaring, even late at night and when they’re asleep. This has been a source of considerable frustration. Thankfully I have noise cancelling headphones. I’m hoping to transfer closer to home tomorrow, which would be a significant improvement.
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Oh boy, do i hear you about the suitcases. We lugged out bags up three steep flights when we arrived here in Mallorca, and are dreading having to get them down again on Friday. Looking forward to the modern apartment in London for the very reasons you mention. Oh, for a nice shower stall! :) Still, our thighs and buttocks have been improved by the three flights twice daily. Did I mention how steep they are?
You might want to take a look at this. Its a schlager tour that tours all of Sweden the whole summer and ends in Stockholm at Ulriksdal Castle August 14. http://www.diggiloo.com/
Thanks for the link. Unfortunately I’ll be back in Sydney by the time it makes Stockholm. Would love to see Magnus again. Hoping he’ll do “something” around Pride.
Oh boy, do i hear you about the suitcases. We lugged out bags up three steep flights when we arrived here in Mallorca, and are dreading having to get them down again on Friday. Looking forward to the modern apartment in London for the very reasons you mention. Oh, for a nice shower stall! :) Still, our thighs and buttocks have been improved by the three flights twice daily. Did I mention how steep they are?
I discovered this in Estonia in 2008. Rooftop room, too many flights of stairs. Lovely historic building, but sheesh… I ain’t getting any younger.
You might want to take a look at this. Its a schlager tour that tours all of Sweden the whole summer and ends in Stockholm at Ulriksdal Castle August 14.
http://www.diggiloo.com/
Thanks for the link. Unfortunately I’ll be back in Sydney by the time it makes Stockholm. Would love to see Magnus again. Hoping he’ll do “something” around Pride.
With the Stieg Larsson tour, I just turned up on the day. Admittedly that was October but I can’t imagine that you would have too many difficulties.
The artists for this year’s Allsång will be announced on 9 June.
It’s in my diary, thanks.
Hi James,
I’m sure you’ll be fine booking the tour after you arrive. And if not, I have the map and will gladly take you around!