I don’t know why, but for some reason, just before midnight, Cleveland Street, Surry Hills was like a parking lot.
I asked the cab driver if he knew why. “Is there any sport on? Any special event?”, I asked him. “No idea. Nothing on. No roadworks. I don’t know” was the best answer he could offer.
Maybe it’s just the Christmas holiday season? Maybe there was some kind of special event we knew nothing about?
And I was desperate to get home, get out of my work clothes, and just relax. The last few days at work have been quite busy. And on top of that there’s been a fair bit of pre-Christmas socialising.
And tonight’s there’s been a get-together which has included ABBA fans from interstate who have come to Sydney to see ABBAWORLD.
At the Glasgow Arms we sat, chatted, ate and drank, and listened to a variety of ABBA-related music over the P.A. The other diners didn’t seem to mind so much, though you’d see the occasional person look over and smile. Some would have been smiling in recognition, others would have been smiling in encouragement, and others were probably laughing at a bunch of 40-50 year olds listening to, and chatting about the music of a pop group which broke up before many in the rest of the bar were even born :)
At about ten o’clock last night, I checked the time. “Happy Anniversary”, I said to Sue, congratulating her on twenty-four hours in Spain. “Cheers”, we all said, as we raised our glasses. And what a whirlwind twenty four hours it had been.
After meeting Sue late last night at the airport, and checking in to our hotel, the Hotel ibis Madrid Aeropuerto Barajas, we had a bite to eat at a nearby restaurant. La Vina de Nerea. The food, wine and conversation were excellent.
An early morning start had us on the almost four-hour train trip to Barcelona. We were both somewhat overwhelmed as we contrasted train trips in Australia and Spain. The railway station in Madrid, and the train itself, were both clean and orderly. And the speed. For the most part we travelled at close to 300 kmh.
One of the really surprising things about the trip between Madrid and Barcelona was the lack of any major development in between. Yes, there were farms, and the occasional town, but the landscape was overwhelmingly bare. Not that it was unpleasant. In fact, I found it very engaging, and snapped a quite a few photographs from the window of the train.
Spanish Countryside
On arriving in Barcelona, we headed straight for our apartment, located in the Gracia district, where we settled, bought a few necessities for the next few days, before heading for a walk around the nearby Park Gruell.
Guell Tourists
“Barcelona is such a beautiful city at night”, I commented to my colleague, Damian as we walked off last night’s dinner. He’s here with his wife, Kate, currently working at the university. It was lovely to see them, as they told us many stories about what’s been happening in Barcelona, in the midst of the independence movement. They’d recommended we had dinner at Cafe De L’Academia, after a brief earlier catch-up at a nearby tiny bar called, Vin.
Guell Views of Barcelona
Back home, we discussed further our activities for the next few days, which included booking in for a visit to the Basílica i Temple Expiatori de la Sagrada Família. It’s not the “peak” of the tourist season right now, but you still need to book ahead, and unfortunately, we weren’t able to secure a place on an English-language tour. Nonetheless, we had places on a self-guided tour with audio commentary, and that’s probably better, anyway.
This morning, we’re headed off on one of those “free tours”, which I hope will be really terrific. Wake up, Sue, it’s time for breakfast :)
It’s Sunday night at about six o’clock, and to be honest I had no idea what time it was until I switched my computer on. The long days are very confusing.
Early in the mornng in Gamla Stan
I woke early this morning – at about four o’clock – with every intention of seeing the sunrise. My body clock got the better of me and I went back to sleep until about seven. By that time it was well and truly daylight.
Breakfast at Adlon Hotel was excellent, and was included in the price of the accommodation. I had cereal, some bread rolls, cold meats, fruit, yoghurt and coffee, and thus well and truly filled up for the day. This seems to be the way in Sweden, and it suits me fine, because I haven’t felt hungry all day. Or at least until just a while ago, when I thought about preparing dinner, but that’s another story.
Although I had a chance to walk around the city when I arrived last night, it was nothing compared my experience earlier this morning. I walked around Gamla Stan, past the Swedish Parliament, and up and down some of the back streets. It was then I thought what an incredibly liveable place this must be (in summer at least). It was quiet, it was calm, and incredibly beautiful.
Later this morning, I caught up with ABBA fan, Marco, visiting from the Netherlands, who agreed. “I could so live in Stockholm”, he told me over a coffee in Gamla Stan.
He was lucky enough to be at the opening night of “Mamma Mia” on Friday, and showed me some of the many photographs he took. He also told me about catching up with some other fans who were in Stockholm for the premiere, and about the experiences of a lucky couple of fans who went to the after-show party. Agnetha, it seems, was in very fine form, and there was an especially warm moment when Frida put her hand around Agnetha’s arm, as if, perhaps, to give her some reassurance about the crowds which she, famously has avoided in recent years.
Marco reminded me in so many ways of a former colleague, Phil, both in the way he looked and the way he spoke. It was very odd in that regard, but I really enjoyed a couple of hours with him chatting about stuff (although to be honest, mostly ABBA).
The afternoon was spent on a couple of tours, which were included in the price of the Stockholm Card. The first, a boat tour around the canals was excellent. There was possibly too much of an emphasis on the bridges and roads for my liking, but there were some wonderful sights to be seen. And, in an ABBA-related moment, we were shown where the famous Polar Music studios used to be located and listened briefly to “Gimme, Gimme, Gimme”.
For me, the most interesting thing, however, was to be shown some very intimate moments of Swedish people at play, enjoying the summer and enjoying the water. There was a terrific scene, for example, of three young blokes sunbaking on a jetty. There were also some close-up scenes of people washing their boats. And along the way, many of those on boats waved to us. We were also told that, for a country of about 9 million people, there are 750,00 registered pleasure craft. The viking ancestors, surely?
ABBA – The Museum opens in 2009
And then later, I went on a tour of the Stockholm Town Hall which was fascinating. The architect or designer, it seems, was one to change his mind regularly, which explains why the construction cost blew out so much, and why there are some apparent design flaws. The most fascinating room, I thought, was the gold hall which is exactly as the name implies. Except, they’ve achieved the effect at a significant saving, by putting thin slices of gold and fusing them between glass.
Controversial mural inside Stockholm Town HallInside Stockholm Town HallStatues outside Stockholm Town Hall
The walls also feature a mosaic which, apparently was very modern, and thus, very controversial. Although I’m not entirely convinced about some of the artistic merit of the work, I really enjoyed hearing the story about how the artist had shocked Stockholm with many of his inclusions. Eventually, they got used to the work, and it’s now much loved, apparently.
My favourite story, though, concerns the reason why St Erik has no head. Apparently, they began creating the mosaic from the ground floor up, completely forgetting about the base which, subsequently, took about two feet off the top of the mosaic, including Erik’s head. And rather than start all over again, they left it as it was, and explained it away, saying that he had been beheaded by the Danish anyway.
One of Sweden’s many boats.
And from there I made my way towards STF Fridhemsplan (where I’m now staying) and along the way, mastered another aspect of the public transport system. Well maybe not mastered, as there was a false start. Having been given some directions by an attendant I walked down an escalator and then re-emerged minutes later coming up the other one. I hadn’t QUITE understood the directions he gave me in Swedish.
And for those who’ve asked, yes, I have been using my Swedish. My German has also had a good working. There are German’s EVERYWHERE. Generally speaking I’ve found the people I’ve spoken to in Swedish have been really appreciative that I’ve made the effort, even though they mostly speak perfect English. They’ve smiled and responded slowly and simply, and they’ve also responded kindly when I’ve asked “Hur sager man pa Svenska”? (How does one say that in Swedish). I’m also starting to get to the stage where the signs and directions are starting to mean something instantly, without the need for internal-translation in my head.
Speaking of directions and road rules, I was nearly killed twice again today. Having mastered an understanding of when and how to expect cars (which are, in my view, on the wrong side of the road) I’ve now discovered a problem with people on bikes. They’re everywhere! And they mean business… In fact, I got an angry “bell ring” from one bloke this afternoon when I inadvertently walked onto a cycle-lane.
So anyway, I’ve booked into the youth hostel. The room is fine with just a few beds, though there’s a bit of a “man smell” about the place, if you know what I mean. But I’ll cope, I’m sure.
However, the one thing I’ve learned quickly is that I’m not a “cook my own food in a hostel kind of guy”. I had every intention on this trip of having a good breakfast, then the lunchtime special or maybe a sandwich, followed by cooking a meal in the hostel at night. I don’t think so…
As I walked in the kitchen late this afternoon it was full of people eating noodles with plain, uninteresting (and therefore probably cheap) meat balls. There wasn’t a souce in sight. Ugh. Sorry, I just can’t do that. It reminds me too much of being at university, and two much of two-minute noodles. I think it’s bigger breakfasts and lunches for me.
My trip to the supermarket this afternoon, though, wasn’t entirely disappointing. I know some people were looking strangely at me as I walked around the supermarket working out what all of the different foods were called, and how they’re bought. It’s the same as at home mostly, with a few differences here and there, and…
I discovered my two favourite fruit/vegetables – tomatoes and cucumbers – are dirt cheap. I’ve also discovered my other favourite food – seafood (including mussels) are also dirt cheap.
They say that Stockholm is an expensive place to live, and it might turn out to be that way, but I don’t think it has to be. I could live quite happily on tomatoes, cucumbers and mussles for the rest of my life, to be honest.
I’ve been checking out some of the restaurant menus as I’ve walked around town. Asian cuisine is incredibly over-priced compared to Sydney, and from what I’ve seen on the plates themselves, is more like what you’ll find on the menu of a Chinese restaurant in country Australia, than what I enjoy so cheaply in Sydney. Lebanese food is also very expensive, compared to what I have on my doorstep at home.
Enjoying the Swedish Summer
I’m thinking of heading over to Sodermalm tonight to check out some of “those bars”, and then tomorrow, it’s another day of sight-seeing around town. I’ve only been here twenty-four hours but I’ve managed to fit in a lot so far.
At 6.04pm when I started to write this blog post, my computer tells me it’s still forty-one degrees.
“Where are we? In the Middle East?”, I said to Graeme as we walked out of the air-conditioned comfort of Rhodes Shopping Centre to the “blast furnace” that is Sydney weather today.
We visited IKEA for two reasons today. First and foremost, because it’s my final Swedish class for the year on Thursday, and I was on a mission to pick up a few bits and pieces to take along to eat.
And second, because it’s so bloody hot.
I was reminded of my days working for Coles New World, as it was called back then. In Brissie in the middle of summer, there was no better place at Coles Sunnybank than to walk into the chiller room where they kept the fruit and veg.
I was also reminded of all those years growing up in Lismore without air-conditioning, and where Lismore Square was the best place in town.
Rhodes Shopping Centre was a bit like that this afternoon.
As Graeme noted, they must need big ships to bring all that shit over here. His words, not mine, of course!
Hot Weather in Sydney in November
James at IKEA doing Christmas food shopping. Pic courtesy of The Best Judge
It wasn’t overly crowded, though. Well, not as crowded as the 393 bus which, in its over-crowded state, can feel a little like The Black Hole of Calcutta.
So Graeme and I wandered around the shops for a while.
And once again, they were playing ABBA on the sound system at Dick Smith. But not anything most people would know, it was more your classic B-sides.
There was nothing terribly exciting at IKEA. Though I’m a little impoverished this week as I save towards my holiday, and so only had the intention of buying some sweets for Tuesday night’s Swedish class.
In the end, we ended up buying dammsugar, some chocolate balls (the Swedes used to have a less-PC name for them), some gingerbread hearts, and a few cans of pear cider.
There have been Swedish films two nights in a row on SBS TV. One on SBS1, the other on SBS2. Of the two, my favourite was “Fröken Sverige” (literally “Miss Sweden”) which screened tonight.
The title, of course, is ironic, as it deals with a young woman living in a country town in Sweden who finds life rather complex and confusing.
She’s involved in so-called “fringe politics” where she is involved in “indie music” and “protests” about a range of subjects, with the consumption of meat at McDonalds a recurrent theme. Oh, and Australian animal rights campaigner, Peter Singer gets a brief mention.
But she also longs for more traditional notions of femininity and a relationship, which involves her in a number of personal compromises, and which puts her at odds with her friends. One of her female friends clearly has a bit of a crush on her. Meanwhile, she embarks on at least two significant relationships in the film. She also “connects” with the young man her parents have brought into the house because he has nowhere else to go. Yes, it’s very “Swedish” in that regard.
What I liked most about the film, as I do with most Swedish films, is the honest way in which people speak to each other. People EXPRESS their point of view, though not necessarily their feelings, an important distinction. You also “feel” for the character, as she makes mistakes, recognising the mistakes you’ve made in your own life, and the “compromises” you’ve made for love.
Wikipedia describes it thus..
Miss Sweden, originally titled Fröken Sverige, is a 2004 Swedish film directed by Tova Magnusson-Norling. The film tells the story of Mona (Alexandra Dahlström), who lives by herself in a cottage in the forest, and has a dead-end job in a toilet paper factory. She is trying to find herself; she has a dead-end job, yet has a talent for computer layouts and photography; she is an activist on causes such as veganism and anti-capitalism, accompanying her friends on demonstrations, but it seems that she may be doing this just to fit in. When at home, by herself, she listens to commercial pop music and uses make-up. As the story progresses, it transpires that she lacks self-esteem, and is used and abused by what she takes to be her friends. Boys are happy to have sex with her, but dump her soon afterwards. She begins to gain self-confidence as she comes into contact with Jens (Leo Hallerstam), a troubled teenager whom the local authorities have entrusted to Mona’s parents, perennial foster parents and do-gooders, to look after.
I felt less strongly for the other film, Lilya 4-ever, which was a film about a woman who moves from Russia to Sweden.
Wikipedia summarises the film as..
Lilya 4-ever is a 2002 Swedish drama film. It is director Lukas Moodysson’s third feature film which marks a sharp change of mood from his previous two films, the uplifting love story Show Me Love and Together, a comedy set in the 1970s. Lilya 4-ever is an unremittingly brutal and realistic story of the downward spiral of Lilya, played by Oksana Akinshina, a girl in the former Soviet Union whose mother abandons her to move to the United States. The story is loosely based on a true case and examines the issue of human trafficking and sexual slavery. The film received positive reviews both in Sweden and abroad. It won five Guldbagge Awards including Best Film, and was nominated for Best Film and Best Actress at the European Film Awards.
I just couldn’t get into it. Maybe I was in the wrong mood? Using my fabulous new PVR, I have recorded the film, and will probably watch it back when in a different time and space.
The last few days have been busy spent trying to balance calendars. There’s the work calendar and there’s the personal calendar. Though the process of changing things is fairly easy, there have been conflicting emotions and practicalities, as I’ve tried to work through it all.
In the midst of it all is the strong desire to head back home again. To be honest, when I came back to Sydney a few weeks ago, I would have rather stayed in Lismore. I had similar emotions twelve months ago when I found myself “stranded there” during COVID. Though I really love being home with my family, I’m not quite ready to return to Lismore full-time yet. There is still so much to do with my job, I have friends here, and I LIKE living in Sydney. But this time, the emotions were stronger than before. Ever since returning to Sydney, I’ve been looking for cheap flights.
In the back of my mind, I’ve had a slightly silly idea of going back for the Lismore Show. I don’t actually recall the last time I’d been to the show, but it was probably when I was a teenager. And to be frank, it’s perhaps not the extravaganza I remember as a child, as back in those days, it was pretty common to be given a new outfit every year.
Lismore Show with my niece…
But after a couple of COVID years, and the flood, I’ve had this idea in the back of my mind, of going to the show, along with my family. They’re young enough to enjoy the rides, the dagwood dogs etc, while I’ll be likely more interested in the pavilions, the live music, and the comedy.
The last few times I’ve been to the showgrounds have been for the farmers market, and for Tropical Fruits, the local LGBTQIA+ celebrations.
Tropical Fruits at Lismore Showground
The pandemic has most definitely shown me I can work from anywhere, though there are still moments when I need/should engage in face-to-face meetings. Thankfully, my managers at work understand my connection to Lismore, and the often sporadic desire/need to go home at the moment.
So I’ve booked a flight to Lismore.
On the downside, I’m going to miss an exhibition of flood photographs opening at the NSW Parliament, which actually includes a family member. But there will be a bigger exhibition next year, so I can be around for that.
And while I’m there in Lismore, there’s talk of an informal high school reunion.
…contacted me recently after she’d been chatting with Trace they’d been talking about organising a get together with those of us from school who still live in the area who have recently been through the flood, to have an opportunity to catch up and talk about our experiences.
Messenger group text
So all in all, it’s a good time to be back with my family.
And I THINK, it will be the first time I’ve been home for my own birthday since my 21st. Get ready for a sponge-cake birthday post!
Construction work has officially commenced on the new flood-resilient buildings for South Lismore Public School, marking a significant milestone for the 100-year-old institution. For many locals, the sight of the rebuild brings back powerful memories, particularly for those of us who grew up in the area. I had the privilege of attending the school in the 1970s, and with this new chapter beginning, I joined ABC Radio Lismore today for a brief local history spot to share some recollections of my time there.
Transcript: South Lismore Public School Memories
What do you remember about your primary school? Was it the teachers that stood out to you, the cute little buildings, perhaps even the canteen and what you used to order for lunch?
Construction is underway on new flood-resilient buildings at South Lismore Public School, a school with over 100 years of history. And the ABC’s James O’Brien attended the school back in the 1970s. He’s here to share some of his stories and memories about the amazing things he remembers learning about, and the people who came out of there.
Good morning, James. Thanks for coming on.
Hey there, Bridie.
What do you remember most about the school? What sticks out as the most prominent part?
Well, I think at the moment, because the construction is underway, I remember back in the 1970s, the school was rebuilt then. And it was about the time of the ’74 flood that they saw the need for a new school. So, my strongest memories of going to South Lismore Public School between ’71 and ’77 was the reconstruction of the new school.
So, those buildings that were recently pulled down, they date back to the ’70s. There were a couple of older buildings that were still around. But yeah, it was the sound of jackhammers and pile drivers and the fact that we kept staying in our classroom. And I do remember one day when one of our teachers just got so annoyed by all the sound that she just stopped the class for half an hour.
She just couldn’t take it anymore?
No, she was completely over it. I remember we had some new demountable classrooms at the time, and there were some students in those. And it was a couple of years of really quite difficult times at the school in terms of the whole construction work. But then when the new buildings arrived, the strongest memories I have, first of all, is we had carpets. We had fans.
I remember the library was this little tiny part of one of the old wooden buildings, and all the books moved over, and the library was too big for the books that we had. But it was this huge transformation of the school.
Can you remember primary school age James’s face walking into, for the first time, the carpeted classrooms?
Look, I remember we all were allowed to go and have a look, and I actually spent Sixth Class in one of the carpeted classrooms. And I think we were all just amazed because, you know, before that it was wooden buildings and wooden floors and all of those sorts of things.
Any air conditioning back in those days?
Look, I’m trying to remember now if it was air conditioning or fans, but certainly we had some fans. I remember when the fans were installed. And just to give you an idea of how old I am and how old things were back then, we used to have these radios on the walls that weren’t quite high up, or maybe they weren’t so high. They were high for me, you know, seven or eight year olds. And we used to listen to ‘Kindergarten of the Air’ on the radio every morning, I think about 10 o’clock.
Wow. I wonder if anyone else remembers listening to, was it ‘Kindergarten of the Air’, the program, James?
‘Kindergarten of the Air’. It might have had a few name changes, but it was on the ABC, and I remember the ritual of the teacher turning on the radio every morning, and we’d sing along to the songs.
So sweet. And was it an educational radio program?
No, it was songs.
Just songs? Just music?
Kids’ songs. Yeah, nice.
James, any significant alumni, even if it’s just locally famous?
Oh, look, some of the names that people would know pretty well locally. In my year at school, Tracy Bowen was in my year from Bowen’s Cake Shop in South Lismore. Lynne Youngbury, the well-known real estate agent, she was in my year at school. The year below us is a guy called Adam Worling. Now, Adam’s really interesting. He helped a couple of years ago. All the flood kids get clothes, and he waits for their year to all fall. But he’s also, I think, the Deputy Lord Mayor of Sydney now. He’s certainly part of the Clover Moore team, and I reckon he could end up replacing Clover in a couple of years’ time. So yeah, they were all famous alumni. But, you know, I remember all the kids really well. I was looking at some class photographs last night, and I could name every one of them.
Second from the left in the front row, Third Class at South Lismore Public School in 1974
And how does it feel knowing that kids will continue to go to this school site, even though it is on the floodplain, and the school culture and history will continue?
Yeah, well, I really like… you know, I was born in South Lismore, raised in South Lismore, and until, you know, my sister got the buyback a couple of years ago, was a proud Southie all the way, and I used to walk to school. I remember walking up and down Casino Street to get to the school. Two of my sisters, who are no longer with us, both went to South Lismore Public School back in the ’40s and ’50s. Their children, who were born in the ’70s, went to South Lismore Public School. The grandchildren also went to South Lismore Public School, and one is still in Fifth Class, I think, years in now. And in a couple of years’ time, probably another great-grandchild, whoever it is, will also be going to South Lismore. So, you know, I stay very close to South Lismore Public School.
Quite a strong family connection. Do you remember what your uniform used to be?
Yeah, I vaguely do. It was a grey shirt and grey shorts, and I’m sure the girls’ uniform was a green check sort of uniform. Gee, you’re making me go back now. And we wore desert boots. All the boys wore desert boots.
Desert boots? What are those?
Look, this kind of suede shoe. You know, they were the popular shoe at the time.
Impressions of the new school were released last week.
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Didn’t Bon Jovi perform at the Football Stadium last night? That could account for the traffic.
Didn’t Bon Jovi perform at the Football Stadium last night? That could account for the traffic.
That’d be it. Thanks!