I was feeling a bit grumpy tonight so I decided to pop into town to check out the Christmas Windows at David Jones and the Nativity Scene at St Mary’s Cathedral.
The delayed bus service didn’t help my grumpiness by the way.
But by the time I’d arrived at DJ’s corner I was feeling much more relaxed.
The windows were quite busy, by the way, with loads of people, mostly families standing around, looking inside.
Even though it’s Christmas, you’d never know.
Well that’s not entirely true. There are lots of Christmas themed displays, but generally speaking you have to look closely to note their Christian basis. There’s only one or two where you look at them and realise, without hesitation, they’re about Christmas, and not something from Disney. Still, I guess they’re aimed at the general kids market.
Meanwhile over at St Mary’s, there’s a beautiful nativity scene which they’ve been dragging out for the last few years.
Unlike DJ’s, parents were loudly asking their kids questions about what it all meant. Bloody Catholics :)
At St Mary’s, they’ve also done a great job in lighting up the building crayon-like.
David Jones Christmas Window – I think it looks like HR Puf n Stuff
David Jones Christmas Window
David Jones Christmas Window
St Marys Cathedral for Christmas
St Marys Nativity
St Marys Cathedral
When it comes to Christmas lights, St Mary’s wins this year in my view.
There’s nothing terribly complex about the annual Christmas Trifle – sponge cake, custard, whipped cream and jelly – but gosh it tastes fantastic.
Ever since mum died forty years ago, Patsy (not her real name, a nickname since she was born on St Patrick’s Day) has been “in charge” of Christmas lunch. It’s a fairly traditional meal of roast meats and vegetables, Christmas pudding and, of course, trifle.
This video was captured this morning.
An interesting an odd combination of things, but trifle has been my favourite desert since childhood.
After a couple of hours in the fridge, the sponge cake has pretty much absorbed the custard and cream.
There were no “seconds” for anyone today.
The only thing that was really different about Christmas this year was Pat’s decision that “everyone can serve themselves”. Ordinarily, she would be quite painstaking in serving everyone individually. But she’s getting a bit older now, and decided cooking the meal was enough this year. As for the washing up? That’s been everyone else’s responsibility for many years.
“There’s nothing quite like going out for breakfast on a weekday”, was the general consensus at our daily staff meeting today.
I mentioned to everyone that, because my friend Patrick was in town, we had taken the opportunity for a “little pleasure” and went out for breakfast at a nearby cafe. One of my colleagues noted her “local cafe” had also been packed this morning.
Someone told me the other week that in a recession, smaller womens fashion items (like lipstick) actually sell reasonably well. People decide they can’t afford the luxury items they have previously enjoyed, so they look for something small and affordable which can give them a “little pleasure”. So in the midst of the current recession, maybe going out for breakfast will become the “little pleasure” in a lot of people’s lives, replacing the larger, more expensive restaurant meal?
As you watch other people rushing off to work or in the case of Surry Hills, coming home from a nightclub, there’s something wonderfully indulgent and satisfying about tucking into a plate of food someone else as prepared. “It’s quite a different place on a weekday”, I mentioned to Patrick over breakfast this morning, noting the odd/interesting/diverse collection of people who live locally and who you see at eight o’clock on a Monday morning,
The ghost of Breakfast Past. This was a vegetarian breakfast at a cafe on Baptist Street, Redfern taken in February 2008.
I woke surprisingly early this morning. After a late-ish night with my birthday celebrations I was wide awake at about four-thirty. I turned on the radio for a while and listened briefly to a radio presenter who, curiously enough, got a few mentions on tonight’s edition of “Media Watch”.
I managed to make it back to sleep for an hour or so, before finally getting out of bed at about 6.15 when I had a cup of tea, checked my email, and then began preparation for the day.
Although it was a “bits and pieces” kind of day, most of the day was spent working on a spreadsheet I use for rostering staff. It’s mentally quite exhausting work, and although a little bit “process”, it’s actually quite a creative (and fulfilling) experience putting together teams of people with complementary skills, experiences, temperaments and personalities. In the midst of all those cells and rows, you’re still dealing with real people which is what I love about my job.
I also went out for lunch today with a bloke who wanted some career advice. He’s an English bloke who has worked recently with some friends who has come to Australia to be with his girlfriend. In the current economic climate he’s finding it a little difficult obtaining work in the careers he would like to pursue. So I offered him my “two bobs worth” about a career in radio, and I hope it was helpful.
Apropos of nothing, I mentioned to him how wonderful it has been to ensure there’s a “lunch break” in my daily schedule. “I’ve always been a bit of a workaholic”, I told him, “but since going away for a few months earlier this year I’ve promised myself a bit of time out of the office every day. And for the most part I’ve achieved that”.
We had lunch at a nifty little Asian cafe not far from work that’s become a bit of a favourite. I’ve been there two or three times since embarking on this new regime which, to be honest I’ve found remarkably productive in a work sense.
There’s nothing like taking a break in the day for a little bit of contemplation, or for the time to gather your thoughts for one of those “difficult conversations” which sometimes need to occur.
Even though I’ve mostly used the time to read the paper (or in the case of today, chat with someone), I’ve found just a little time away from the office really helps you think a little more creatively.
Having a good lunch (without over-indulging) has often given me the energy levels I’ve needed for the afternoon, which can often be just as exhausting as the morning.
So if you’re one of those people who like me, has spent most of their working life eating lunch (usually a sandwich) in front of their computer, can I suggest you get out of the office for a while? Make the commitment and you’ll find it really makes a difference.
And maybe once in a while, treat yourself to a weekday breakfast at a cafe with a friend.
I had a realisation earlier today I haven’t really been home much lately. I was home in Lismore for Christmas. I was in Newcastle for a week with my work, and my work will take me to Brisbane for a few days later in the month. And last weekend, a friend and I travelled to the Sunshine Coast for a few days.
We stayed in an apartment at Maroochydore which was nice: spacious and close to the beach. Maroochydore itself was quieter than I remembered, though noting it’s a few years since I last visited there. We relaxed, ate well, and enjoyed our time there very much. Memorably, Maroochydore must have the world’s largest adult store which, amusingly, has a large sign at the front saying they have parking and you should “enter via rear”. We both laughed.
Mooloolaba was a little more exciting, and a little more visually appealing with a lovely beach, and a lovely bush walk. The surf club was an excellent place for lunch: they’ve done a nice job making it appealing to both tourists and the many older, retired people who can still afford to eat out at what’s essentially a tourist town. My friend was after a pedicure and was told the basic pedicure would cost $90 “because we’re a tourist town”. Yikes. An unexpected highlight of the town was the Steve Irwin statue just off the beach. Yes, really.
Mooloolaba, Queensland
Mooloolaba, Queensland
Steve Irwin statue at Mooloolaba, Queensland
On the subject of travel, my mid-year plans are coming along nicely. In essence, a week in Japan, a week in New York, and three weeks in Europe (Sweden, of course) which now includes 5 days in Rome. I’ve never been there before, but am looking forward to it very much, having found good central accommodation (without breaking the bank), and with plans for sight-seeing both in Rome and beyond (Venice for a day-trip surely?). Any travel tips would be most appreciated.
It’s such a beautiful sunny day in Sydney, which is terrific, because it’s the first day of my three week holiday. Admittedly, I have to go in to work for a 1-hour meeting this afternoon, but it was terrific to go to bed last night not really worrying about setting an alarm or anything.
I woke, as per usual around 5-5.30, read the papers, and then went back to sleep until mid-morning. Then, with the spirit of someone who has only only a few things on his agenda for the day, I set out with a spirit of adventure. Enjoying the sunshine, I started walking and randomly catching buses, until I arrived at Köket café https://www.funkis.com/koket in Paddington, which sells lots of Swedish food, including kanelbullar. Very tasty. Excellent coffee.
As much as I love my job, I also really enjoy taking a break. And it’s been almost two years since I’ve had a “proper” holiday. So here’s to sunshine, relaxation, watching great movies and television, listening to great music, reading great books, chatting with great people, some great travel, and lots of new adventures, Hopefully lots of good blogging also.
Kanelbullar at Koket Cafe in Paddington, Sydney
Light Rail – Devonshire Street construction continues
Eurovision Party by Gay4Play at Sydney’s Oxford Art Factory
There’s not a lot that happens on a Sunday afternoon in Lismore. The streets are empty, and most of the pubs are closed.
In some ways, it’s not that different to the days when I was growing up here in the 70s and 80s. Most of these memories are from when I was less than ten years old. Every Sunday, Pat would come and pick me up. From there, we would drive to the home of the financier who she was paying off her home to. “It was $14 a week”, she told me yesterday. And from there, we would take a drive around the block, eventually stopping for a soft-serve ice cream at “The Dairy Delite”.
“The Dairy Delite” is no longer there. Even “The Glen Milk Bar” has gone, as has “Harry Crethar’s Wonder Bar”. The Tropicana and The Mecca remain.
Whenever I’m back in Lismore I love going for a walk around the block. My family doesn’t quite understand why I like walking to town. “We can drop you off and pick you up”, they’ll tell me. From home to town takes about ten minutes, starting with a walk across the Ballina Street Bridge.
Underneath the Ballina Street Bridge, LismoreWandering down by the Wilson’s River in Lismore.Sunday afternoon at the laneway to the Lismore Club.
While family members took an afternoon nap yesterday, I wandered over town for a walk along the levy bank, on my way to the Bowling Club.
Even though I’m 55 years old, I suddenly realised yesterday I’d never actually been inside the City Bowling Club before. I’ve walked past many, many times, but I’d never actually entered the building before.
Lismore City Bowling Club
It’s one big room, with lots of honour boards and old black and white photographs.
“I’ll only charge you $10”, the woman on the door said. I was there for the advertised afternoon of the Lismore Jazz Club. Looking around the room, most people were aged at least sixty. There was, however, a sprinkling of young people. “Do you mind if I sit here?”, I asked a similarly aged-bloke. He was originally from Sydney and had been living here for a while. He still goes back to Sydney about once a month to teach. He told me he was in a few different jazz bands, including a few different styles. “This band is good”, he told me.
I missed their first set but was there for the entirety of their second, which explains why I didn’t have to pay the full entry fee. They played a fairly traditional setlist of tunes from the 1930s to the 1960s.
There were standards like “Nature Boy” and “My Funny Valentine”, along with less well-known stuff from Theolonius Monk and Wayne Shorter. I really hated the way they turned “Nature Boy” into a bossa-nova style number, but otherwise, they were a good band playing good tunes, and it was a lovely way to spend the afternoon.
As I looked around the room at the crowd, I realised these could be “my people” when I return home in a few years time.
Since emerging from the induced coma, I’ve been able to reflect on the incredible series of hallucinations I experienced during that period, while under SERIOUS pain medication.
One very amusing hallucination involved me being on the sixth floor of the hospital, where I imagined a fully-fledged television production team working on a documentary about amputations after overseas holidays.
One of my friends, who happens to work in the film industry, lightheartedly offered to handle the release forms for the non-existent documentary. Release forms are the documents required to confirm agreement for appearing in a documentary. Reflecting back, we now chuckle at the absurdity of the situation.
Another hallucination transported me to a hospital that also functioned as an ABC Radio station in regional Victoria. In this alternate reality, a nurse played the dual role of a radio station technician.
Throughout this period, I had other visions where I believed I was moved to different temporary hospital wards around Sydney and told a friend we should make a documentary about the staff. (I actually think we should, but that can wait).
There was also the dream where I was in some kind of open space, and someone was buzzing the door, but no one seemed able to open it. “Can one of you open the freaking door” I said in my dream, and maybe out loud.
And there was the moment where I wanted to call a friend, but didn’t have my mobile, so I asked a young person in the dream if I could use theirs. “Oh no, our generation doesn’t use mobile phones anymore”, she said. Yeah, like definitely an hallucination.
I was absolutely convinced this piece of medical equipment was a 1990s mobile phone and tried to call friends on it.
Some moments were bizarre and disconcerting, like the fear of “my toxic faeces” causing blockage in the hospital toilet system, or the incident where I imagined being held hostage by a nurse threatening to blow up the building
Though the pain relief during my previous operations (appendix and cyst removal) were significant, this period of sustained hallucination was unlike anything I had experienced before. I later attributed the vividness of my hallucinations to external conversations being absorbed into my unconscious state and then magnified, much like when radio chatter seeps into your dreams while sleeping.
For a few days after awakening from the coma, I clung to the belief that some of these hallucinations were real. It took time to reconcile them with reality.
Later, I wondered whether my mobile phone’s location tracker might validate my experience in Victoria. Unfortunately, the phone was switched off at the time, and I couldn’t fact-check the peculiarities of my hallucinations.
Throughout this whole period Michelle (my niece) told me she couldn’t find my mobile phone. I understand why.
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I think that lighting St Mary’s is part of a month long decorative lighting of public buildings along Macquarie Street.
I think that lighting St Mary’s is part of a month long decorative lighting of public buildings along Macquarie Street.
I really should get out more, shouldn’t I? :)