Swedish Christmas
The Swedes really love their Christmas albums. In this week’s Top 60 albums there are seven “Christmas” themed albums, including the #1 CD by Sanna, Shirley and Sonja.
For just a moment tonight, I thought I was back on the subway in Beijing. Okay, so maybe that’s a bit of an exaggeration borne out of my lack of experience on crowded Sydney trains. I simply don’t catch many trains during peak hours, and so when it is busy, I’m always a bit surprised.
Nonetheless, the train from Central to Hurstville just after 6 tonight was pretty crowded. I had to stand all the way. Worst of all, I was surrounded by “train idiots”. They stand there in a state of suspended lethargy. It’s as if you have to wake them before they’ll make way for anyone else.
After the trip, however, there was some light at the end of the tunnel. I caught up with Damo (the ex) for dinner tonight, and we chose Hurstville because it’s roughly halfway between where I live in Surry Hills and he lives in Cronulla.
“We came looking here for a meal years ago”, he reminded me tonight. We concluded there wasn’t much on offer when we came here looking previously, though we both noted tonight things had improved significantly. The area around the train station was, by contrast with ten years ago (or whatever) fairly buzzing early in the night lots of busy, mostly Asian restaurants.
Damo had done some research and suggested we choose between either a Malaysian restaurant or a Vietnamese. We chose the Vietnamese, Miss Saigon.
It’s nothing much to the eye as you enter, but it’s busy, and you get the idea the experience for most is a brief, inexpensive one, as opposed to something more drawn out. We had two dishes, a shared entree (a very healthy serving of rice paper rolls), some rice, some tea, and paid just $27.00. All of the food was fresh, tasted good, and was pretty well, though simply presented. In short, we thought Miss Saigon was excellent value, and if I’m ever back in Hurstville, I’ll definitely go there again.

Naturally enough we had a beer at the nearby pub which was also pretty good value.
In summary… Hurstville 2011… not bad at all. Bloody chilly, though.
It’s been a day of hard physical labour for me as I spent a few hours helping Damo move some furniture into storage.
For me, that meant getting up earlier than I normally would on a Sunday, driving with him to The Shire (which is where he’s moving to after China, as it’s closer to his relocated workplace), and helping him pack a storage unit with a combination of his own and his late mother’s furniture.
For him, it was far more difficult, as he’d had to come all the way from the Central Coast, and return there in a truck that had some issues.

And although it was a bit of hard work – my muscles feel fantastic – it was also actually kinda fun. And a nice reminder of the work my sister and brother-in-law have done for most of their adult life, running their own removalist business in Brisbane. I was surprised at how many tips about moving and packing furniture I must have picked up when I lived with them briefly.
Or maybe it’s just that I spent several years “on the road” pursuing my career and I’ve learned some of the removalist shortcuts through the “university of life”.
My first big moves were those annual pack-ups to and from university, as I packed up my on-site accommodation for the annual summer holidays.
And then it was from Brisbane to Bourke. And from then from Bourke to Renmark. And then from Renmark to Wagga Wagga. And then from Wagga Wagga to Sydney which is where I’ve been ever since. Sure, there have been a couple of side-trips such as the year in Perth, but I only ever took a suitcase full of material with me.
Along the way, I’ve managed to accumulate a lot of “stuff”. In the grand scheme of things, I know most of it’s useless stuff that should just go to the dump in the event of my passing, or if I chose to go to live overseas for a while :)
In fact, there’s a lot of stuff that’s in the garage downstairs that I haven’t looked at for years. There are a couple of tea chests that remain unopened from that first trip from Brisbane to Bourke. I really should do something about it, shouldn’t I?
At about three o’clock this morning, I woke to the sounds of thunder, rain and croaking frogs.
Though I’d only been in Darwin for just over 12 hours, it was a welcome relief from the heat and the humidity.
“Look after yourself. It’s only a 90 minute time zone difference. But the heat and the humidity can shake you around”, a colleague warned me.
Though I could probably do the sums, I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve visited Darwin. Most recently I was here in August. On only two occasions have I been here when it wasn’t in the midst of the dry season. On both occasions – April and December – it was extremely warm and humid. And it was again when I arrived around lunchtime yesterday.
The 90 minute time zone difference caught up with me early last night when I retired for, what I thought, would be a brief nap. When I woke up, the Evening Show on ABC Darwin was still on the air, though initially I had no idea if it was 7pm or 10pm. It was only 8pm, and so I headed in to town to grab some dinner and go to the supermarket.



The confluence of a few things at work has brought me to Darwin for a week. The work ahead of me will keep me busy, and so I’m not sure there’ll be much time for after-hours activity.
“There’s no Arts Awards or Baker Boy playing at this time of the year”, my colleague joked. Though looking online reveals Neil Murray is playing a gig on Saturday night, and it looks like there’s an interesting light installation along The Esplanade which I’d like to check out.
It’s Sunday night and I’m struggling to find something interesting to watch on television, so I thought I’d update my diary, the first time since arriving home from Lismore. Upon reflection I enjoyed some aspects of going home for Christmas and didn’t enjoy others. I didn’t enjoy the heat and I still find Lismore a little boring, but it was great to see my family and to chill out for a while.
I also took the time to time in Lismore to read a few interesting books. Most noteworthy were The Perfect Glass Of Wine and The Dismissal, books about two of my favourite subjects – wine and politics – but I also read a few other books probably not worth mentioning.
Since arriving back in Sydney, it’s all been work, work, work, especially with the Central Coast bushfires on New Years Day. That said, I had a great fun night with Michaela last week, ending in dinner a terrific Mexican place on Riley Street. The Sydney Festival season has also begun, which means lots of socialising.
Last night I went to the Opening Night of the Sydney Festival which, I have to say, looks pretty good this year. Ahead of the party, I went to see Twelfth Night performed in Russian (with surtitles) by an all-male cast. Although you may have needed to re-read that sentence, it’s all true. At the Sydney Festival Opening Night Party, I overheard a conversation in which one person – a journalist I think – described it as “challenging”.
In fact the play was an absolute joy to behold on so many levels. The direction was excellent. There was never an occasion where I thought the actors over or underplayed their roles and they always seemed at ease with the work. The comedic timing was excellent with the final words of the play garnering a huge belly-laugh from the audience. One of the other particular highlights was the incorporation of music played live on stage by the actors, often drawing upon 1930s-style tango-style arrangements. I found it to be genuinely exciting theatre to watch.
Although I noticed a fair number of people left at intermission, those who remained were given a terrific second half, giving the cast an enthusiastic round of applause at the end. I think the audience really appreciated the efforts the actors had clearly undertaken to make sure their work was understood by an audience which, largely speaking, didn’t speak Russian. My friend Colin also observed “they look like a nice group of blokes” and I think most of the audience agreed.
In his opening night speech, Festival Director, Fergus Linehan acknowledge it was Russian Christmas. Much less controversial than his speech earlier in the night when we were asked to acknowledged the passing of Kerry Packer which received a muted response at Twelfth Night and boos at the Anderson Project. The party, as always, was great fun, though, with the exception of Cate Blanchett, celebrities were a little light on the ground. Mind you, I did see someone who looked like a younger Paul Keating who kept smiling at me throughout the night. I don’t know what to make of that (or maybe I do?).
Wandering home I noticed the Nativity Scene is still outside St Mary’s Cathedral. It’s a lovely scene and if you’re in Sydney over the next little while it’s well worth going to have a look at.
“I had months and months of work lined up, but it’s all been cancelled, so tomorrow I’m officially unemployed”, a similarly aged bloke who lives in my apartment block told me as we chatted and waited this morning for our take-away coffee.
The coffee shop is one of the few places continuing to trade at my end of Surry Hills. The supermarket and associated bottle shop are still trading, albeit with restricted hours. There’s also a few take-away food places, and two hair-dressers. But mostly lots of shops with signs saying they are closed “indefinitely”.
I normally like keep my hair short, but it’s getting a bit “wooly” so I popped in today to the hairdresser for a #1 allover clipper cut. “I thought I’d better get a trim while I still can”, I told the barber.
“I’m bored”, he told me. “I wish I could just go home. At least there I’d be comfortable doing nothing”, he added as he looked around his empty salon.
In particular, I feel really sad for the owners of two restaurants which have recently opened on Crown Street. You can imagine it was their “dream” to open a restaurant, and after only a few weeks trading they’ve been forced to close.
When I dined last week at the Vietnamese restaurant I was the only one there. The food was very good. “You live locally?”, the owner asked me. “I can deliver to your house if you like”, he offered. Today, there’s a sign in the window saying the restaurant is closed indefinitely.



As for me, I’m lucky to have a job, and lucky to have quite a lot of sick leave and long-service leave which I can take if needed.
I’ve been working at home for a week, and I’m starting to get a little “stir crazy”. The line between work and home has become blurred, though I’ll presumably find the right balance sometime soon.
In many ways it’s nice to work from home. I can sit at the lounge-room table with the window open, with bird sounds and a calming breeze. While going about my business, I can put a load of washing on, and make a tasty lunch for myself. I made some muffins the other day and ate them all at once! I can also wander down the street when I need a bit of space. I’m “saving about 90 minutes each day when I would otherwise be preparing for, and travelling to and from work. But I do miss my colleagues. As a single person living alone, and by nature an introvert, I hadn’t noticed before how I really enjoy the day to day social interaction I get from work.
And video conferencing is so intense. At work you can have some personal space, so when you’re meeting with people you don’t have to be so up close and personal as you are when you have someone’s face about a foot away from yours on a computer screen. For a few video conferences, I’ve cast the vision to my television so I can sit back a bit, and have a more normal human distance between us.

Tomorrow is a day off, and I’m thinking of how I can best spend the day. Virtually everything is closed, and so I think I’ll end up taking a nice walk in the Botanic Gardens and will take some photographs.
I’ve also got some homework to do for Swedish class. Though we haven’t started yet, we’ll be doing classes from now on via a Zoom session. I helped our technology-nervous teacher (aged in her 70s) set up her first session. Despite her initial trepidation, she seemed comfortable with the technology. Ingen ko på isen!!
“You see that building in front of us?”, the taxi driver said to me. As I looked ahead at the large, non-descript building, he told me, “It was a prison and during the days of apartheid, they used to keep political prisoners in there. They would torture them and often throw them out of the windows so they would fall to their deaths.”
My taxi driver was an older black man (probably in his 60s, I thought) who told me had lived in Johannesburg all of his life. What changes he must have seen, I thought to myself as he drove me from where I’m staying in Melville to the Apartheid Museum. “Johannesburg is a town for young people. It’s so hectic lots of older people move out to the countryside”, he told me, though adding he had no such plans himself.

As he dropped me off he twice used the phrase, “It’s very sympathetic” to describe the museum. A similarly aged white woman from an Afrikaans background had earlier told me the museum was “very fair about what happened”.

Inside the museum those attending were predominantly quite young. The exceptions were myself and an older man (mid 50s) who was pushing his father around in a wheelchair. There were probably more white people than black people (though not overwhelmingly so), and as I listened to the accents of the conversations of those around me, I would say half were international tourists and half were South Africans.
As you enter the museum and look down at your ticket you’re immediately confronted by the phrase “Your ticket to the museum has randomly classified you as either ‘white’ or ‘non-white”. Mine declared me as “non-white”. That meant I entered the museum through a separate gate to the older man and his father. As we entered through our separate entrances, I looked up at some of the signs of the apartheid era which declared train platforms, restrooms and the like as being for “Europeans only. Slegs blankes”.
You then walk through an area where there are images of modern day South Africans on mirrored walls. You soon discover these people are descendants of many well known names from the apartheid era.
As we all three entered the museum at about the same time, the older man and his father began a conversation with me. As we looked from the roof-top of the museum towards the city, the older man asked me if there was “…anything about the truth about South Africa” I would like to know. Unsure of how to respond, and somewhat fearful I might have been in the company of people who might have been about to tell me the museum was a fiction, I mumbled something about being a tourist from Australia and so I knew nothing at all. As he pointed out the different city landmarks, he added he has an interest in military history and was thinking of putting together a day-tour for tourists that would cover things like the Boer War. He asked me if I thought $130 for the day for a personalised tour was expensive. I said “for a personalised tour that would be okay”. “Of course, you Australians are doing very well now”, he told me, adding two of his daughters now live in Sydney.

The museum takes you back to the early days of the discovery of gold in Johannesburg, noting how the city had very quickly become one of the most multi-cultural cities in the world. There was unease, even in the early days about the “mixing” of nationalities.
In the wake of the war between the English and The Afrikaans which resulted in a “white union”, black people were then officially denied the right to vote in all areas (except the Cape Territory). Over the next forty years or so, an official policy of segregation existed which the museum explains what partly about race, and partly about managing white and black labour.
The museum then explains that by about the mid 1940s, when they were still having problems “managing labour”, the National Party differentiated itself from the other political parties by adopting apartheid. Unlike segregation which was about keeping people separate from each other, apartheid was more about forced settlement, as people were literally often moved overnights from their homes.
As I made my way around the Apartheid Museum, I thought about what the taxi driver had told me about the political prisoners, the gaol, and the torture. In particular, I thought about it when I came across a list of political prisoners who had died while in custody. A significant number of them had died from “suicide by hanging”.
The museum covers the resistance to apartheid, including by many white South Africans. There’s a particularly memorable piece of video which features a group of young white women standing in a line protesting against apartheid (probably in the 1960s, by the way they were dressed). As the camera goes along the line you can see the nervousness in their eyes, as in speaking out, they were perhaps fearful for their own safety, also.
The story inevitably leads you to the story of the African National Congress, and in particular to the story of Nelson Mandela. There’s actually a major temporary exhibition at the museum right now about Mandela or “Madiba” as he is now commonly called. The exhibition covers a lot of his life story, growing up in a small village predominantly surrounded by women; and a a video where he talks about his tribal circumcision (I know it’s “traditional” but still gross :)) at the age of sixteen.
In the midst of the grimness of what occurred in South Africa, there are moments of great joy, particularly around Mandela’s release from prison and becoming the first black president. There’s a particularly heart-warming piece of video (and story) around when South Africa defeated New Zealand in rugby union. The accompanying story-board tells you rugby union was, for many years, almost completely a “white sport” in South Africa. That all changed when Mandela turned up for the match in a stadium “where 95% were white” and embraces the players. The story-board tells you there was a moment of silence until someone began the slow chant, “Man-del-a” which eventually engulfs the entire stadium.
The exhibition about Mandela was, by far, the most popular part of the museum today. With the way his health is (or isn’t), I guess it’s a time for many people to go in, absorb themselves in his story, and to reflect on his life and work. I smiled, in particular, when I saw two white South African women (probably sisters by the way they looked) who were there with a young boy (of about seven or eight. He was wearing a Mandela t-shirt, and they were doing their best to explain to him the story behind many of the exhibition panels.
I really enjoyed the museum, despite the subject matter. I spent well over three hours walking around the museum and probably could have stayed longer. The only thing that made me decide it was time to move on was hunger pains! Unfortunately the museum cafe wasn’t open today.
Later in the afternoon I caught a taxi to Ghandi Square where I bought a pre-paid SIM card. As I looked around, there was evidence of a fair bit of poverty, and a fair of addiction. There was one woman showing signs of long-term addiction who came into the Vodafone shop while I was there and caused the staff a fair bit of grief. Despite the negatives, as I looked around I just saw lots of people getting on with their lives. That said, I took the advice I’ve read where you shouldn’t flash your mobile phone around, you should be careful with your money, and walk with the confidence of a local rather than as a wandering bleary-eyed tourist.
In the taxi on the way back to Melville, the driver and I listened to the radio. There was a news bulletin in another language which, of course, I didn’t understand until I heard the word “Mandela”. “What did they say?” I asked him. He told me his condition “was not good” and that he had “been critical but stable” for a week now. He was the first person I’ve spoken to who conceded Mandela was an old man and that maybe his time was up.
In contrast, the news bulletins on television keep optimistically talking about a recovery. On the “feel good breakfast show” (they actually use that phrase) on television this morning, they had a panel of people talking about the lessons which “all of us can learn from Nelson Mandela”, which I thought was very moving.
The other thing I noticed from watching breakfast television this morning was the large number of advertisements for funeral plans. Not being able to afford the expenses associated with a family funeral is obviously something which plays on the minds of many South Africans. Enough to at least see lengthy, almost “glossy” advertisements from three separate funeral plan companies during an hour of the breakfast show alone.
Arriving back in Melville late this afternoon, I called into the “Six Cocktail Bar” for a glass of wine and something to eat. Up there on the wall, along with those iconic images of Marilyn Monroe, Che Guevara and Bob Marley, was another iconic figure. Who else could it be but Madiba smiling down upon us?
PS. There’s a sign which asks you not to take photographs INSIDE the Apartheid Museum, so that’s why there none on this blog post, just in case you were wondering.
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