The day started off normal enough. I woke early and then hit the snooze button until about nine o’clock. I showered, had some coffee, checked email, and loaded a blog-post about last night. My only real plan for the day was a visit to the cemetery. I really like cemeteries for their historical value, and the cemetery on the southern side of Stockholm is interesting enough to have received heritage listing by UNESCO.
Cemetery, Stockholm
The tour guide explained the significance of the cemetery as a woodland cemetery, one of the few in the world. The integrity of the landscape has been maintained with few modifications, and by ensuring minor details are in keeping with the major vision. He also explained how the cemetery was designed with increasing secularism in mind, and with a trend away from burials towards cremation. Ninety percent of Swedes are now cremated, we were told.
As part of the tour we also got to go inside a number of chapels. “This is very popular with Catholics” our guide said at one point. He didn’t have to tell me , though, as I knew that even before he said it, as it was the only one which was traditionally Christian in any sense. Most of the chapels were entirely functional. And where there was art work, the imagery was fairly general, open to a lot of individual interpretation. Greta Garbo Grave in Stockholm
A large part of the tour group was made up from members of the Stockholm chapter of “Couch Surfing”. Couch Surfing, by the way is a not-for-profit organisation which allows people to sleep on each others couches (or beds I guess) as a low cost means of travel. When I got to chatting over a cup of tea with one of the blokes who was part of the group, I mentioned a friend of mine who had recently “Couch Surfed” for Swedish mid-summer at Dalarna. And guess what? So had he. He told me my friend was very very nice. But also fairly quiet, and “not a big party animal like many of the others who were there”, he said.
Sodermalm Cliffs, StockholmView from Sodermalm Cliffs, Stockholm
We met again later at the bus stop and he invited me to join him, as he planned to meet a friend for a walk around the cliffs of Sodermalm.
There’s an excellent walk you can do which takes you along cliffs and allows you to sit on rocks which afford an excellent view of the city. We also visited some of the many back streets of Sodermalm. He was an excellent tour guide and very kind host. Anyway, the upshot of it all is that somehow we ended up at a hippy rave called Langholmen 07. By my guess, there was maybe 500-700 people in a forest setting on the nearby island of Langholmen dancing to groovy music, enjoying good conversation, and especially enjoying the Swedish summer.
Eco dance rave partyEco dance rave party
The weather was great. There was a great vibe to the place, and there was a wide cross section of people attending. I didn’t feel uncomfortable at all. Of course, it could also be because the whole event had a very “North Coast” feel about it all. Lots of dreadlocks, lots of incense.
This was especially evident when a bloke wearing some kind of traditional South American clothing climbed to the top of the hill and then began to blow on some kind of sea shell in time to the music.
I got chatting to a Swedish bloke I was introduced to, who told me he likes to go clubbing, but this wasn’t really his scene. “It’s more a lifestyle than anything” he said. In Australia, I told him, they’d be called “ferals”, and then asked him what they’re called in Sweden. He told me they’re called “woodland people” because they have lots of parties in the woodlands.
So that’s how I ended up at a hippy rave party in Sweden.
There was a moment the other night, Good Friday night, at around 11.00pm, when I stopped for a moment and marvelled at how quiet it was. Though there’s normally a low level traffic rumble where I live, it was almost eerily quiet. Though other people like to leave Sydney for the Easter Weekend, the peace and quiet is one of the reasons why I like to stay around.
With four days off, I’ve enjoyed catching up with mates for beers, going out for meals, and having afternoon naps. Today, I even had a late morning nap.
And this afternoon, I paid a visit to the White Rabbit Gallery, where there’s a few “mega works” this time, including a video work featuring two large screens, projecting a piece called “The Long March – Restart” which I liked very much. I love how even the people viewing the work have taken on a “video game glow” in the photograph I took on my phone.
Heading over there, I was also a little overwhelmed at the amount of construction activity underway in Chippendale. Though I work closeby, and am therefore in the area at least five days a week, I hadn’t really noticed it. Everywhere, it seems there’s an apartment block springing up.
On world-scales, Sydney is both a small and large city. Much larger than many European capital cities, but much smaller than some of the mega-cities of Asia, such as Shanghai, Tokyo and Beijing. Within my lifetime, Sydney is likely to become as big as Tokyo is right now, but by that time I’ll more than likely be living back in the country-side.
This is in no way some kind of anti-immigration post, and I’ll delete any comments here that proffer any kind of racist rant, but I quite like Sydney at around the current population, and especially around Easter when it’s nice and quiet.
For the three decades I’ve lived in this area, my local shopping centre in Surry Hills was affectionately, or perhaps ironically, known as the “Murder Mall.” I, however, preferred to call it the “Methadone Mall.”
But as gentrification swept through the neighborhood, so too did an upscale makeover for our mall. Now, it boasts a Harris Farm, new upmarket restaurants, and a massive Coles, shedding its old, grungier vibe.
I found myself heading back there for lunch today with former colleagues, a cherished annual tradition. Our destination was Olympus, a Greek restaurant that has generated considerable buzz over the past year. Everyone I’d spoken to raved about it, so I suggested it for our special catch-up.
As we settled in, the conversation naturally turned to our lives, our careers, and, hilariously, our impending or recently passed 60th birthdays. I playfully asked, “So, what pills are we all on?” This led to a lighthearted, yet surprisingly bonding, discussion about our current medications. Even our fittest friend, we discovered, is now on a few prescriptions! It was a lovely, relatable moment with colleagues I’d worked very closely with for years.
Olympus certainly lived up to its hype. The space itself is striking, designed to accommodate 240 people without feeling crowded. Unlike many modern restaurants that cram in too many tables, Olympus offers ample room, allowing for easy conversation without needing to shout. A truly unique feature is the large tree in the center of the dining area and an overhead opening window. While it was closed due to winter, this million-dollar window, as our waiter informed us, floods the space with natural light, making it easy to read menus – a welcome change from dimly lit establishments.
Olympus in Surry Hills. Pic by Jeremy
We sampled several dishes, all excellent. Here are a few of them.
Prawns at Olympus, Surry HillsTrout at Olympus, Surry HillsLamb at Olympus, Surry Hills.
It was a genuinely great meal, and surprisingly affordable given the quality. Only two of us opted for a glass of wine each, so the bill wasn’t astronomical – a far cry from the indulgent, office-ditching lunches of the 80s! But it’s also not a cheap meal, either. I’d highly recommend Olympus, though be prepared for a higher-end experience if you choose to truly indulge.
Beyond the Mall: Bingo, ABBA, and Back to Reality
Also this week, I enjoyed a different kind of outing, attending “Bingay” at the Beresford Hotel.” This fun event was a fundraiser for the AIDS Council of New South Wales, set to a fantastic ABBA soundtrack. One of the drag kings even channeled an ABBA member in their costume, adding to the entertainment. It was a joy to reconnect with friends who’d attended previous events and meet new people, making for a truly enjoyable evening.
Wearing my “ABBA – The Album” shirt at Bingay!
Aside from these outings, it’s been a week of settling back into work and life in Sydney after my break in Lismore. I had a funny moment this morning when a colleague asked about my weekend plans, and I realized I couldn’t instantly answer. I’m back to that stage where plans get added to the diary and sometimes completely forgotten until they’re upon me! Such is life right now.
“You see that building in front of us?”, the taxi driver said to me. As I looked ahead at the large, non-descript building, he told me, “It was a prison and during the days of apartheid, they used to keep political prisoners in there. They would torture them and often throw them out of the windows so they would fall to their deaths.”
My taxi driver was an older black man (probably in his 60s, I thought) who told me had lived in Johannesburg all of his life. What changes he must have seen, I thought to myself as he drove me from where I’m staying in Melville to the Apartheid Museum. “Johannesburg is a town for young people. It’s so hectic lots of older people move out to the countryside”, he told me, though adding he had no such plans himself.
Taxi ride in Johannesburg
As he dropped me off he twice used the phrase, “It’s very sympathetic” to describe the museum. A similarly aged white woman from an Afrikaans background had earlier told me the museum was “very fair about what happened”.
Apartheid Museum, Johannesburg
Inside the museum those attending were predominantly quite young. The exceptions were myself and an older man (mid 50s) who was pushing his father around in a wheelchair. There were probably more white people than black people (though not overwhelmingly so), and as I listened to the accents of the conversations of those around me, I would say half were international tourists and half were South Africans.
As you enter the museum and look down at your ticket you’re immediately confronted by the phrase “Your ticket to the museum has randomly classified you as either ‘white’ or ‘non-white”. Mine declared me as “non-white”. That meant I entered the museum through a separate gate to the older man and his father. As we entered through our separate entrances, I looked up at some of the signs of the apartheid era which declared train platforms, restrooms and the like as being for “Europeans only. Slegs blankes”.
You then walk through an area where there are images of modern day South Africans on mirrored walls. You soon discover these people are descendants of many well known names from the apartheid era.
As we all three entered the museum at about the same time, the older man and his father began a conversation with me. As we looked from the roof-top of the museum towards the city, the older man asked me if there was “…anything about the truth about South Africa” I would like to know. Unsure of how to respond, and somewhat fearful I might have been in the company of people who might have been about to tell me the museum was a fiction, I mumbled something about being a tourist from Australia and so I knew nothing at all. As he pointed out the different city landmarks, he added he has an interest in military history and was thinking of putting together a day-tour for tourists that would cover things like the Boer War. He asked me if I thought $130 for the day for a personalised tour was expensive. I said “for a personalised tour that would be okay”. “Of course, you Australians are doing very well now”, he told me, adding two of his daughters now live in Sydney.
Apartheid Museum, Johannesburg
The museum takes you back to the early days of the discovery of gold in Johannesburg, noting how the city had very quickly become one of the most multi-cultural cities in the world. There was unease, even in the early days about the “mixing” of nationalities.
In the wake of the war between the English and The Afrikaans which resulted in a “white union”, black people were then officially denied the right to vote in all areas (except the Cape Territory). Over the next forty years or so, an official policy of segregation existed which the museum explains what partly about race, and partly about managing white and black labour.
The museum then explains that by about the mid 1940s, when they were still having problems “managing labour”, the National Party differentiated itself from the other political parties by adopting apartheid. Unlike segregation which was about keeping people separate from each other, apartheid was more about forced settlement, as people were literally often moved overnights from their homes.
As I made my way around the Apartheid Museum, I thought about what the taxi driver had told me about the political prisoners, the gaol, and the torture. In particular, I thought about it when I came across a list of political prisoners who had died while in custody. A significant number of them had died from “suicide by hanging”.
The museum covers the resistance to apartheid, including by many white South Africans. There’s a particularly memorable piece of video which features a group of young white women standing in a line protesting against apartheid (probably in the 1960s, by the way they were dressed). As the camera goes along the line you can see the nervousness in their eyes, as in speaking out, they were perhaps fearful for their own safety, also.
The story inevitably leads you to the story of the African National Congress, and in particular to the story of Nelson Mandela. There’s actually a major temporary exhibition at the museum right now about Mandela or “Madiba” as he is now commonly called. The exhibition covers a lot of his life story, growing up in a small village predominantly surrounded by women; and a a video where he talks about his tribal circumcision (I know it’s “traditional” but still gross :)) at the age of sixteen.
In the midst of the grimness of what occurred in South Africa, there are moments of great joy, particularly around Mandela’s release from prison and becoming the first black president. There’s a particularly heart-warming piece of video (and story) around when South Africa defeated New Zealand in rugby union. The accompanying story-board tells you rugby union was, for many years, almost completely a “white sport” in South Africa. That all changed when Mandela turned up for the match in a stadium “where 95% were white” and embraces the players. The story-board tells you there was a moment of silence until someone began the slow chant, “Man-del-a” which eventually engulfs the entire stadium.
The exhibition about Mandela was, by far, the most popular part of the museum today. With the way his health is (or isn’t), I guess it’s a time for many people to go in, absorb themselves in his story, and to reflect on his life and work. I smiled, in particular, when I saw two white South African women (probably sisters by the way they looked) who were there with a young boy (of about seven or eight. He was wearing a Mandela t-shirt, and they were doing their best to explain to him the story behind many of the exhibition panels.
I really enjoyed the museum, despite the subject matter. I spent well over three hours walking around the museum and probably could have stayed longer. The only thing that made me decide it was time to move on was hunger pains! Unfortunately the museum cafe wasn’t open today.
Later in the afternoon I caught a taxi to Ghandi Square where I bought a pre-paid SIM card. As I looked around, there was evidence of a fair bit of poverty, and a fair of addiction. There was one woman showing signs of long-term addiction who came into the Vodafone shop while I was there and caused the staff a fair bit of grief. Despite the negatives, as I looked around I just saw lots of people getting on with their lives. That said, I took the advice I’ve read where you shouldn’t flash your mobile phone around, you should be careful with your money, and walk with the confidence of a local rather than as a wandering bleary-eyed tourist.
In the taxi on the way back to Melville, the driver and I listened to the radio. There was a news bulletin in another language which, of course, I didn’t understand until I heard the word “Mandela”. “What did they say?” I asked him. He told me his condition “was not good” and that he had “been critical but stable” for a week now. He was the first person I’ve spoken to who conceded Mandela was an old man and that maybe his time was up.
In contrast, the news bulletins on television keep optimistically talking about a recovery. On the “feel good breakfast show” (they actually use that phrase) on television this morning, they had a panel of people talking about the lessons which “all of us can learn from Nelson Mandela”, which I thought was very moving.
The other thing I noticed from watching breakfast television this morning was the large number of advertisements for funeral plans. Not being able to afford the expenses associated with a family funeral is obviously something which plays on the minds of many South Africans. Enough to at least see lengthy, almost “glossy” advertisements from three separate funeral plan companies during an hour of the breakfast show alone.
Arriving back in Melville late this afternoon, I called into the “Six Cocktail Bar” for a glass of wine and something to eat. Up there on the wall, along with those iconic images of Marilyn Monroe, Che Guevara and Bob Marley, was another iconic figure. Who else could it be but Madiba smiling down upon us?
PS. There’s a sign which asks you not to take photographs INSIDE the Apartheid Museum, so that’s why there none on this blog post, just in case you were wondering.
“It’s pretty confronting”, a friend and I concluded about our (separate) experiences of visiting the red-light area of Amsterdam. As you walk around Amsterdam there are half-dressed women in shop-fronts offering themselves to (often) groups of men. I don’t have an issue, at all, with sex work as a legitimate form of employment, but sex work doesn’t come without its problems, including drug abuse, exploitation, and (sometimes) slavery.
“Most sex work now happens via this”, Elliot, our tour guide noted today, holding up his mobile phone. We were standing outside the infamous “Wall” in Sydney. During the 70s-90s, the “Wall” was a location for male sex workers and their clients. I still remember now seeing younger men on the footpath and road getting into cars with older men. Further away in Darlinghurst, there were the transgender sex workers, and there were also quite a few female sex workers too.
A few years ago, I remember a family member from the country was “disappointed” when she came to Sydney, only to discover there was little evidence of sex workers on the street anymore.
Although, I thought I knew a fair bit about the history of Surry Hills/Darlinghurst, but today I learned something new: there was an “Amsterdam-like” history of sex work.
There is an area of Darlinghurst that was known as “The Doors”, I learned today on the “Darlinghurst: Sex, Scandal & Murder Walking Tour“. In a 19th-century workaround to the prostitution lawns, Elliot explained there were limits on the number of women who were “allowed” in a house. Thus, there was a “one woman per house rule” which effectively saw a lone figure stand at the door of many homes in East Sydney/Darlinghurst.
East Sydney
As part of the tour, we also visited a pub that, during World War 2, was often frequented by American servicemen, especially African American servicemen. In that particular case, the hotelier banned women from the bar, though one (the notorious underworld figure) Tilley Devine was allowed in. Or perhaps more accurately, forced her way in.
Tilley and Kate Leigh were larger-than-life characters in Sydney back in those days, specialising in sex work and illegal alcohol sales. And during the tour, there were some wonderful stories about their interactions. There was one story, in particular, where Kate punched Tilley in the face and literally “sat on her”.
East SydneyWalking tour of Darlinghurst
The tour was very interesting, and it was great to see the evolution of Elliot as a “tour guide”, having seen him during one of his very first, early tours, exactly one year ago.
Tour guide, Elliot
From there, we headed off to lunch at The Oxford, and a wander around the Shimmer Festival.
Less bitter, more glitter at the Shimmer Festival in Darlinghurst
After a couple of years of lockdowns, it’s great to see a few more street festivals emerge.
I don’t really have plans for the rest of the weekend, as I’m gearing up for further travel, home to Lismore.
In other news, there was a moment this week when I was genuinely concerned about my fellow blogger, Andrew. His blog was down, his email was deleted. I thought something very bad may have happened. I dropped an email to another (former) blogger, Victor who knows Andrew better in real life than I do. Thankfully, all was okay.
As it turns out, his email and blog are linked, via Google, and he had “breached their terms and conditions”. He still doesn’t know what he did.
Also, recently, I’ve noticed long-term blogger, Carol has taken her blog down. She’s been blogging for as long as I can remember, and we’ve actually met once in real life (quite by accident).
It got me thinking about my own blog, and the treasure trove of life experiences (and genealogy) I have resided here. It’s been a while since I’ve backed it up, so this weekend I resolved to have a hard copy, as well as have it all in the cloud.
The recent problems with Qantas and Woolworths haven’t turned me into a flat-earther about all of this stuff, but have made me a little more conscious of the need for multiple backups.
Though it may seem I’m on a “holiday” right now, I’m actually working quite hard. The days haven’t been necessarily overly long, but they’ve been fairly intense. After two years of working from home, face-to-face daily interactions can sometimes be quite exhausting. I’m also juggling aspects of my “regular job”. Nonetheless, there have been many moments of extreme pleasure.
Today, for example, we did an outside broadcast of ABC Darwin from Mindil Beach. During the dry season, the regular Thursday markets attract many hundreds of people. But today, there was an added attraction.
Darwin is currently playing home to a 17-country combined military operation. The massive fly-over attracted thousands of people. “I’ve lived in Darwin for 40 years and I’ve never seen crowds like this”, Nik, my Uber driver told me as we headed down to the beach. Nik seemed to know a lot about aircraft. He told me he had just spent five weeks in Greece, where his cousin in a fairly senior pilot.
“It’s bigger than Territory Day”, a colleague told me.
I was surprised by the size of the crowds too. And the noise of the aircraft during the flyover.
Thousands at Mindil Beach to watch a major international defence operation, and ABC Darwin was there.
Doing a “live outside broadcast” from a beach seems like it’s a pretty easy job, but from my own experience as a radio presenter over many years, I know it’s quite exhausting. “The hardest part is having to smile for two and half hours”, I told our presenter, Liz, with a laugh. Radio people aren’t used to being in public. Behind the scenes, there are concerns about practical things like how you get a broadcast signal from a beach, without power, and with thousands of people using their mobile phones at the same time.
Awesome job by the ABC team, inc Liz, Clarkie, Daleen, James, Maree, Nick, Saskia, Teghan and Rebecca, who was back in the studio.
In contrast to the very “modern” way of broadcasting, I’ve discovered some wonderful pieces of history in the Darwin office.
Spotted these on a shelf at the ABC Darwin office. It was like most of my career in technology in chronological order.A bit of history in the @abcdarwin office. The flag that flew from the ABC building at the time of Cyclone Tracy is on the wall, not far from the radio studio.
The impetus for starting this blog (twenty years as ago) was as a travel record for a 6-week role working at ABC Radio Darwin (then named 105.7 ABC Darwin). In the last few days, I’ve been re-reading (with a smile) those earlier posts. It was my first management role at the ABC, and I’m so glad they trusted me not to mess it up. Twenty years later, I’m back for a short time while a couple of the local managers take a break, and I’m so pleased they’ve trusted me again.
Oh, and did I mention the military personnel were very cute> :)
You know how you sometimes get to Wednesday and you feel like you’ve already done a week’s work? Something happened today that was so cool that I wanted to share it with you.
As you may know, I’m from Lismore, and went to a school on the “wrong side of the tracks”. Today, students from my old school, South Lismore Public School paid a visit to the ABC in Sydney. The class included my nephew Sam seen here with me and Robbie Buck, the Breakfast presenter on ABC Radio in Sydney.
Robbie is also from Lismore, and was so incredibly generous with his time, talking about volunteering, like me, at the local community radio stations 2NCR-FM from a young age (Robbie was ten, I was twelve).
A definite highlight for Sam was the opportunity to get behind the mic. A definite highlight for one of the teachers was having a selfie with Wendy Harmer. I’m really hopeful the visit will have a profound and positive impact on “my people”.
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Langholmen if memory serves me correctly is also a very popular beat!
Langholmen if memory serves me correctly is also a very popular beat!
Wow that’s a great story. And a great picture of the man dressed so very colorfully! I would love to experience this someday..